I have chronic pain, in my lower back and leg, from getting hit by a car, while walking in a crosswalk. I had the wedding planned before than my brother, Mom, then Dad died, in less than six months. I was going to start planning the wedding for next summer, but got hit, and I am in chronic pain and can't work and very thrifty, and have some great ideas, but can't think clearly, at this time, until I have this surgery, that my car insurance will not approve at this time, and could take a year or more to approve. Would you marry now, to get the surgery done(as my Fiancee has great insurance and doesn't need any Approvals to see a specialist) and then get married that summer after the surgery so my son (10) gives me away. Also, can you hide it or is it against the law not to say you are married? Opinions is needed! Thanks!
2006-09-07 19:24:13 · 3 answers · asked by Jersey Girl 2 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Pain & Pain Management
My Fiancee's insurance"COVERS ALL PRE EXSISTING CONDITIONS"as he works for the Military,and I would not hide it to officials but to some family and friends,until we have our "OFFICIAL" Wedding, the summer after the surgery, s it is in the works, years ago!As I work with insurance companies, and I know some insurance DO COVER PRE EXSISTING CONDITIONS, but you have to do research. Plus, each state is different! I guess, I am lucky to love a man, planning a wedding, over 3 years ago, and I am able to be covered for all my health issues, as my son has some, and his father WILL NOT pay for any insurance, and my Fiancee/Husband, would gladly step up and be a DAD! I am blessed!So, if anyone stated that insuance will not cover Pre Exsisting condions, must do their homework, as there are some that do and YES there are some that will not,but with these days,most people have issues, even at birth, and if you are from a single parent home,that child can't be covered? YES, they ARE COVERED!
2006-09-08 08:42:43 · update #1
get married get your injuries fixed you can have a ceremony later ,
only if it is for frudulent reasons
2006-09-07 19:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have health insurance right now, it won't matter if you marry your fiancee now or later. His insurance won't pay for your surgery because it's for a pre-existing condition that ocurred when you were completely uninsured. Additionally, you will have to have proof of your marriage for him to able to add you to his insurance plan. My job required a copy of the marriage license plus the social security card and/or driver's license that shows the name change. You can't get a social security card in your married name without sending the social security administration the marriage license, so unless you forge one, which is fraud and is illegal, you really can't fake being married.
2006-09-08 06:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by Mandy VZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd marry for the insurance because you need your health! Also I would not hide it and lye because thats fraud and it may come back on you and you'd both be in trouble! Its not worth it! I ;ive with my BF and we have considered getting married so I can have insurance but we have other financial issues but since you guys plan on getting married do it! Good luck.
2006-09-07 19:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by anjelahoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋