I met this girl and Im really into her. the problem is that she just left her husband a few months ago and she's going thru a divorce. Is it to soon for her to take me serious?
2006-09-07 19:06:40 · 25 answers · asked by Silvestre G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes unless you don't mind being the rebound for awhile.Just be friends for now and help her through it.
2006-09-07 19:08:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and even she may not know that herself. Just be there for her and be a great friend, but keep things cool for awhile, she is going to need time to get beyond all of the stuff with her marriage ending. Basically, if you want a real relationship with any serious potential with her, then you need to take that option off the burner right now and just be friends while she adjusts to her new life.
2006-09-08 02:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by rxtech05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its too soon for you to take her seriously. She may have been separated for a while - if this is the case, it is not too soon. But if she is fresh out of a divorce where she just left living with her husband, be careful. You don't want to be just a rebound.
2006-09-08 02:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah, take things slow. Get to know her as a friend first to gain trust and such. Going through a divorce is very tough and mentally draining and too soon for anything romantic to happen right now. Just let the pieces fall where they may and God bless and good luck! :)
2006-09-08 02:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have a very very casual relationship with her, but don't expect anything serious right now. She's going through a divorce dude! Have you ever had a divorce? Just be there for her, listen to her, and have fun together.
2006-09-08 02:10:42 · answer #5 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess it depends. Recently,My ex & broke up after 11 years. we have a 10 year old. I have a new botfriend that I take very seriously. I don't consider him a rebound because meeting him has helped me realize a lot of things about what I was missing in my other relationship. He is there for me. My ex still lives with me. ( a very complicated situation) We are both trying to save up to get on with our lives & the whole thing is not easy because we disagree alot. My new bf is very supportive & very understanding. I guess that is how you should be. If you are that into her, be there for her. It is possible for her to be into you also even though she is going through these changes.
2006-09-08 02:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by twogris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know im not a female but ive seen similar problems b4
u should really be careful
mostly tho it depends on the female she may recover quickly from it or it may take a long long long time to recover i would say comfort be a good friend and let her know u will always be there for her she will let u know when she is ready (she may not actually come out and say but she will let u know)
good luck
2006-09-08 02:24:09 · answer #7 · answered by cowboy76360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. Let her finish up with her family problems first and then settle in with her. Let her know that if she needs someone to talk to or whatever, tell her you will be there for her. I'm sure she will be happy to have someone to talk to when she's dealing with her problems. Just let her know you'll be there no matter what. But other than that, don't rush the relationship with her.
2006-09-08 02:09:25 · answer #8 · answered by *a∙e∙r∙i∙t∙h* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends.
if it was a bad divorce, like say the husband cheats on her, she's ever so ready.
but if it's based on other aspects that contribute to the divorce, then she may need LOOOOTSA time off.
good luck!
2006-09-08 02:10:35 · answer #9 · answered by keira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, dude....you two might get along great.....( I don't know )....but she will
have alot of "baggage" left over from her marriage. She'll have alot of issues.
But if your willing to wait it out with her.....and be patient and nurturing, yet
strong ( like reassuring ) and a stable force. Then hang in there, but give her
alot of space and time...... Tender loving care...never hurt anybody. Give her
a chance to come to you.....don't be to pushy. If it's meant to be it will, if not
it won't~~that's the truth.
2006-09-08 02:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,give her some time to get thru her divorce. in the mean time, be a good friend to her..
2006-09-09 04:16:53 · answer #11 · answered by prettycoolchick38 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋