I met a guy two years ago who moved to my state for work. he had a girlfriend of one month but i didnt care as we were friends. As he was new we hung around a lot and fell in love. I ve never felt this way in my life. Him and his gf broke up sometime on the way. So me and him had a 5 months of unforgetable time together. But then he moved back and we had no promise of future but a hope so we kept in touch. but then 8 months later i found out they got back together. i understood and let him off easy and as a friend.2 months later they broke up and we started talking again. he took 8 months to convince me he wants me in is life and loves me.When i finally believed he arranged a visit&when i called to confirm the reservations(by the way this is 19 months after we saw each other) she picked up. this was recently. so that was over. in my head forever.but recently i moved&its near by him.he somehow managed to find me&asked 2forgive him.I still love him.This time it wont be long distance.help
2006-09-07 19:00:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anna D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ach...find a man who's actually 100% single and quit feeding the flames of drama...
2006-09-07 19:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by corset wench 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl...........
First of all I'm sorry u r having to go thru this.It sounds like he really doesn't know what he wants. It sounds like he doesn't want to be alone and he likes familiarity. And if he didn't have the common decency to call u before u had to call and get her that says a lot.. Was he going to have u on the side , on the down lo to see if it would work before he let the other woman go? Think about that. Do u want to be settled for? anyway good luck hun
2006-09-08 02:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask your self this one important question.
Am I chasing him for love or is it so I can feel good about myself that I am more woman then his ex!
Sometimes we mistake the thrill of the chase more than the catch.
As for him well if it was over with his last then why go back?
Is two better then one and is his ego being pumped up with the knowledge he's bagged 2!
2006-09-08 02:08:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too good for him. You are dealing with a man who is putting you at second best. He is stringing you along for when they break up and then when they get together, you don't hear from him. He is lying to you, cut the heart strings and move on, let him know he can't have his cake and eat it too.
2006-09-08 03:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by Ricky W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lord, There are many fish in the sea. Move on. Your actions don't tell him that you love him it just says that you don't respect yourself. Even a sewer rat deserves better than what you tolerate.
2006-09-08 02:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by Alice W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your a$$ away from that guy! He doesn't love you anymore than he loves the bills he has to pay! I know you love him, but having a one-sided love isn't very fun! it can be miserable. move on, hon, and find someone who deserves that love, and who'll return it and more.
2006-09-08 02:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love triangle is not a great idea. It will hurt you, better you stop this relationship and get in to sometihing solid.I mean marriage, and be faithful to your husband
2006-09-08 02:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by Trying to be spiritual 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh? you ever considered loving yourself before looking for love. treat yourself the way you want to be treated. would you act this way to someone. I don't think so. do ypu deserve less than you give? no way. re-evaluate your love.
2006-09-08 02:15:56 · answer #8 · answered by sllyjo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you must let him choose between his gf and you. you must accept whatever his decision is because i think that would be the best option you have for the both of you.... wish you luck!
2006-09-08 02:07:19 · answer #9 · answered by pbinnocent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy's making you a fool. Walk away while you can.
2006-09-08 02:15:07 · answer #10 · answered by Mistyrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋