I tried to explain why men were intimidated and people responded so and so, I am not ugly and not obeise so what's up? Because i have needs, yet I am not common, I have to wait forever for some action? why? Why is it so hard to find a man who has no ties and wants to just get some contact too? You know we all aren't sluts we just have a time limit and frankly mine is up!
2006-09-07 18:47:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good things come to those who wait!
2006-09-07 18:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by Baseball inquisitive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is just a dry spell. There are 2 things that have always worked for me to get the attention of available men. 1) Not care or have better things to do with my time - then they are crawling out of the woodwork. 2) I wrote a big list of everything I wanted in a man and intentioned to get my husband and it only took 2 months from beginning to end (we were engaged 2 weeks after we met and have been married for 8 years now).
Visualizing and intentioning can be very powerful with not a lot of effort. Sit or lay quietly for 3-5 minutes and envision what you want. You will of course not see his face, but you know you want tall, brown hair or whatever. See yourself happy and fulfilled in the relationship of your choosing. 2 or 3 times a day can work wonders in as little as a week - particularly if you can keep from thinking and saying negative things about the subject. Whenever you hear yourself say (or think) "why is it so hard" stop yourself and say "No - it is not hard. It's the easiest thing in the world". Believe it and make it so. You need to send a clear picture to the powers that be - whatever you think, they send.
Peace!
2006-09-08 01:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't listen to those who say to be indifferent. If you do that, the guys like me would just give up. Be bold! Go buy the guy a drink and act a "little" suggestive without looking desperate. Man, I would have appreciated knowing someone like you when I was younger; it would be nice if more women took the first step - A lot of us guys are really sick and tired of having to.
A hint for the ladies- "direct" trumps reverse psychology. I and a lot of other men are literalists. If you play a game over showing "no interest" I will take you literally and try to find someone who is legit and really wants to meet - and if I find out you were just playing a game without consideration of my feelings I will never give you another chance EVER.
2006-09-08 02:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol what do you mean by "I am not comon"?
Anyways, it's much easier for a girl to get laid. Do you have any male friends you can get with for a night? That's the easiest and safest way to get laid. Most of your single male friends are curious about sleeping with you anyway.
If friends aren't an option, then that's what clubs and bars are for. Just dance with a few guys and get with the one you're most attracted to. Now where you're gonna go to have sex is a whole other issue because bringing a guy you don't know home isn't safe and going to his place isn't either.
If you feel like you can't wait, then do what lots of people do and go online and look for adults in your area trying to get laid. I'm sure there's plenty of them out there.
2006-09-08 01:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by Purple 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not hard for a gal to get some. If I had to guess based on your question, you seem a little desperate and not too smart (spelling errors). I think the type of guy you're looking for (smart, handsome, kind, understanding) would like someone his equal.
2006-09-08 01:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Isabelle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow never thought it would be hard for a girl to find sex. Well this should give you plenty of responses by men. I would not want to sound so desperate. If you sound and look desperate you will scare the men off.
2006-09-08 01:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For one thing no one from here can email you and as far as meeting guys in the real world you must not be approachable. Do you have a guy friend that could maybe give you some pointers on being approachable.
2006-09-08 01:54:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may be coming on too strong and need to slow down and wait for the right guy to come along.
2006-09-08 01:51:27 · answer #8 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pretend not to be interested in the guy that you are interested in, you give in to easily they get what they want and disappear. Sort of tag them along and in that way they are getting to know u as well, so you getting best of both. He gets to know you you get to know him and then you can decide if you should give it to him. If its worth the effort of holding or just giving in so that he can gap it.
2006-09-08 01:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by Gesiggie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are probably a blast in bed too! I love it, a girl that is comfortable with sex. Most girls are too uptight. Bravo!
2006-09-08 01:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋