What things hint if a guy likes you?
Me and this guy are pretty good firends and we have a lot of fun together. At first, he told me that he liked me a few years ago, when we were younger, and he makes up nicknames for me all the time, he makes fun of my flaws, and he's even asked me to the movies before, but i couldn't tell if it was just as firends or not. At the beginning of the week, he just came up to me and he knew we had the same class, so he asked if he could walk me. Later, I glanced up from my desk and caught him starring at me, when i asked him "what?" he just smiled and then looked the other way. He kept asking things like..."u going to the game tomorrow" and
"so, is there a dance on saterday?". But then, these last two or three days he all of a sudden he stopped doing all of this. He still says hi and stuff at school, but On IM, where we normally talk, he doesnt say more then two words, before he logs off without even saying bye. Does he Like me or not?
2006-09-07 18:35:15 · 12 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
erections are a dead giveaway
2006-09-07 18:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he was giving you clues as to his thoughts and it seems that yes he did what to explore a possible relationship.
But with your failure to pick up on the "vibes" he was sending out you unconsciously gave him the boot.
Men and boys today are bombarded with the misinformation that if a lady does nor respond right away verbally then he's out of the running. Plus with the ease of a female yelling stalker, it puts many males on the edge emotionally. No one wants to be branded a freak or pervert.
If you still want to approach him with your feelings by all means do so, but do it during a time where you can "corner" him for the few seconds it will take you to say; Hey! where has my knight gone to? I'd like to talk to you more if you don't mind. Old fashion? maybe but this world needs a little more Mae West and a lot less Madonna.
2006-09-07 18:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, well, the more important question is do you like him???? I mean, yes, all the things you have said are pretty clear indicators that he is interested, but if you havent reciprocated then he probably stopped becuase he doesnt want to get shot down anymore. If you like him, then you need to be upfront with him and just talk things out with him. Step up and make the first move, that will get his attention again.
2006-09-07 19:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by rxtech05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good greif! the guy has practically paraded around with a neon sign flashing huge letters that he is interested! Now when he stops you start wondering if he's interested? you probably wore the poor guy out!! He's jumped through so many hoops that he's given up. . .throw the guy a bone and ask him out for once! He will be grateful and you'll probably have a good time!
2006-09-07 18:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he likes you but since he thinks you are not intersted in him he is trying to prevent the risk of being rejected. as he has already given the sighs that he is interested you should have reacted at that time but if you are interested in him then give him a miss call or an SMS saying you want to go out with him.........this is just my idea dont know if it will work.
2006-09-07 18:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is not sure too. Don't be too tensed up with all these. If you are meant for each other, it will come, eventually. Rushing into things only make things worse. If things happen in the wrong time, things will never go well. Let things happen naturally.
2006-09-07 18:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have to say yes... but maybe you didn't pick up on it and he thinks you dont like him. people need to remember guys arent as smart as girls they handle situations like this totally different than a girl would now you have to start all over again with him and make him feel confident that you are interested
2006-09-07 18:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by q-fire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure. but what matters more if is if u like him. if u do, just let him know so it clears things up for both of you and u can get on with getting it on! (he probably does like u) and if u dont like him, well, dont tell him (unless he asks), but u know, dont flirt with him or anything cos u might end up hurting him. good luck.
2006-09-07 18:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy cow, complicating scenario you have !!! Frankly my dear, definitely a home run if you ask him direct rather than speculating and assuming all it is c",)
Be confident and truthful to yourself, trust me on that :-)
Good luck (^o^)
2006-09-07 18:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL I AM GOING TO SAY IT IS YES DOES HE HAVE TO SPELL IT OUT TO YOU
just kidding but ya i would say he does proably the shy flirt type
2006-09-07 18:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by deitymike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him next time on IM..... "Hypothetically, would you date me?"
Worked for me.
2006-09-07 18:40:33 · answer #11 · answered by torylocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋