Just your opinion, don't say get over it...
You went on a date with someone, who you went out with for a year and a half, but you were seeing each other again just on the weekends 3rd weekend, sorta back together as in you were trying to work things out. So you go out on a date on a Friday night so you keep your night free for him, & he says he cant stay long because he's going out clubbing, not with you? Would you be annoyed? Would you say anything? Be specific... How would you feel what would you do?
2006-09-07 18:33:31 · 19 answers · asked by idk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is whats happening tonight, I just heard from a friend he hasnt actually told me yet, but i know it's going to happen....
2006-09-07 18:42:29 · update #1
if i cleared a whole day for someone only to find out he didn't do the same. I'd be angry and upset. not be like oh its ok you go out and have fun i'll be here when you get back. I'd express what i was feeling because it's not FAIR! and we have lives there is probably something else i could be doing other than waiting on someone!!
2006-09-07 18:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by shadowcat_97008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a girl by any means, but that's horribly disrespectful on his part. It seems like if he really cared to get back together he would choose to spend the time with you or every chance he had. If hes going clubbing without you that means hes going to find other women. If your asking this question you probably have some pretty Strong feelings for him so get out now before he hurts you any more. Find a new guy hes not worth your time.
2006-09-07 18:39:39 · answer #2 · answered by newyorktocountry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would have to know if you were dating him exclusively when you were working things out. If so, then yes, I would be upset. There you are, thinking that you're going to have a great night with him and he's made other plans. I would say something about it if you truly think there's a chance of salvaging the relationship. In my honest opinion though, it's time to move on and find someone who values your time and wants to be with you!
2006-09-07 18:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by marimiata 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would be annoyed that he made plans with me and then was blowing me off to go out clubbing. I'd pretty much take that as a hint that he isn't really all that interested in "fixing" our relationship. The least he could have done was invited you to go along as his date, but it's obvious he was probably going out to the club as a single guy.
2006-09-07 18:36:25 · answer #4 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It annoys me even as my weigh down is afraid to come back and verify with me. i actually want they could spend each waking second with me, properly no longer continually, yet basically sufficient to enable me know that they truly care about me and that i'm no longer a lifeless ringer for one of there friends. It also annoys me even as the guy in no way takes my part. I propose, even as occurred to the rule of thumb "women first" And "although suits the female"? Yeah, I want adult men might want to easily keep in mind that women are way diverse than adult men. we are no the position close to an analogous, and typically we want particular remedy, although if it does propose telling a white misinform some volume. the guy is meant to make the female satisfied.
2016-11-25 20:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe Fridays is the night for him and Saturdays and Sundays are for you two. Ask him what arrangements he has for the weekend before the weekend arrives.
2006-09-07 18:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be annoyed. but i would try not to say anything to rash, if you're trying to work things out, you don't want to start off by having a fight.. just tell him the truth.. tell him that you kept your night free for him.. and ask him if he could go out clubbing on saturday night instead
2006-09-07 18:36:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl......
Oh, HELL YES i would. Its's like your a stop along the way to what he really wants to be doing and who he really wants to be with. If he really wanted to get back with you and work things out then his priority should be you not making plans on the night you guys have date. Maybe u need to be honest with him and make it clear.
2006-09-07 18:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that's pretty lame of him. if i were you, i would bring it up specifically with the guy and tell *him* that it bothered you.
also, there's a book that i'd recommend to all the girls out there--why men love bitches by sherry argov. puts a lot of things into perspective.
but honestly--if this guy is someone who expects you to set aside a night for him and can't do the same for you, drop him.
2006-09-07 18:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by duckie3077 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be pissed if a guy said that to me, especially if he went out with me for almost two years. if he was really into you he would have either invited you to go with him or not told you he was going to do something fun. i would probably just let him go but not after confronting him about it. read He's Just Not That Into You. it helps. good luck
2006-09-07 18:37:59 · answer #10 · answered by whiteplum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋