2006-09-07 18:23:10 · 11 answers · asked by sol 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the guy doesnt call you to much but text messages you more. Does this mean anything?
2006-09-07 18:24:32 · update #1
First tell him that you prefer phone calls to text messages.
If by "discuss feelings" you mean telling him that you love him, yes. That's scary though because it makes you vulnerable, but if you feel that way and you feel comfortable enough to say it, then you should. I'm more the type to prefer that the guy says it first, but I'll let them know what I really like about them and what I rally like about how they treat me. That might be an option for you.
If you mean wanting a more committed relationship or wanting to know where you stand, yes. But don't say "I want to talk". You'll frighten him. Instead just ask him straight up what he wants. If he says he just wants to date casually, then start dating other guys. This guy's had five months to figure out if he really likes you or if he's ready to be in a relationship. If he's not, don't wait for him.
2006-09-07 18:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by Purple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all be honest--to the guy you're dating and most importantly to yourself. Follow your instincts. If something doesn't feel right don't second-guess yourself. Second, take everything as a sign. If he won't take the time to talk to you on the phone take that as a sign that he might not be in this the way you are and move on before you get in too deep. There are other guys out there who will appreciate and respect you. That said, I don't think 5 months is too soon to discuss feelings. Personally if I was in you're shoes I would've discussed it a long time ago. GOOD LUCK and hope this sheds some light on things.
2006-09-07 20:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by ScorpioBeauty09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
text is same as calling, and 5 months is plenty of time to discuss feelings. I am sure he feels the same way if both of you been at it this long.
2006-09-07 18:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by klay43701 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too soon?...Time and dates irrelevant. You should discuss it before or as soon as you get into a relationship. At least gradually.
2006-09-07 18:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by mctorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean 5 months is perfect time to discuss ur relationship....be forward about it talk to him and see where u guys are it never hurts to ask
2006-09-07 18:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by Theresa J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it mean that he's not interested in talking to you...5 months is way too soon...wait about a year after the first kid is born and then tell him how you feel...
2006-09-07 18:26:04 · answer #6 · answered by Sexxssay? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is occupied and doesn't want to take the time to phone you, this way he can multi-task. Listen, if the bird isn't singing, it's not happy.......if he isn't giving you normal relationship time, he is singing somewhere else. Don't waste your time, move on, life is to short to give to someone who isn't appreciating you. You are worth more than that, don't waste another day!!!!
2006-09-07 18:27:34 · answer #7 · answered by Baseball inquisitive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
text is the new in but it is so impersonal. I suggest you do talk about feelings but in person. That what it is not a load of crap. You can see the person and you can see if they are being honest.
2006-09-07 18:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are,and how mature of mind,and heart you are.
2006-09-07 18:26:29 · answer #9 · answered by steveshoardhouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you discuss feelings. I konow you have kiss.P.S. smile
2006-09-07 18:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by plies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋