he says i'm like no other..please advise..?

Question

i've been with this guy for like six years..loved like crazee..had our ups and downs..but got through it..now we broke up like 3 weeks ago..n i'm tryin to move on but he's still hangin on and so unsatisfied of the ending.he wants me back n cant love no other.hAtes all other girls and looks at em as just b**ches.i dont want him to b that way bcause of me.we broke up bcos he was cloudin my scene..didnt let me travel around for work n all..acted like a sour grape everytime as he treats me like a precious baby..which i hate him to.but now he promises to change and wait for me no matter what..no matter the fact that i had slept with another guy during these 3 weeks.he just knows im something special and like no other n still loves me like crazee.he promises to work on the things i dont like but now im havin other doubts like insecure with his future..wheatr he can come up in life and actually be someone..i dont wana jump into it again n be brakin his heart again..but i do still feel 4 him.

Answer 1

Well I mean come on 6 years...of course you feel for him still! That's a long time to be in a relationship..there is alot of attachment involved in such a long union. This can be the reason why he is still there, still attached still doesn't want someone new, because he knows no other. I mean who is to say he won't change right? I say take it slow, play the field see what there is out there, you are vulnerable to him because of how familiar you are with him...so it would be so easy just to jump right back into it.

Tell him the truth about how you feel, and how you don't want to hurt him...and you need some time for you right now.

I always say if it's meant to be it will be, and life has ways of showing you what is best for you...if you are happier not being in a relationship with him then so be it....he may not like it..but remember it's about you not him.

Answer 2

bonita thats tough cuz u care.....but honestly u sound like u really dont want to be back with him.........u'll need to search your feelings......