I dont know any details 2 give its just i thought a question like that might get u guys answering ... am not so sure myself ... i guess if it feels right then do it *safely * but otherwise its up 2 u!
2006-09-07 18:14:58 · 26 answers · asked by Amanda (mandy) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah it is important because you will reflect back on it for the rest of your lif!
2006-09-07 18:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yea its important but im not gonna sit here and act like I gave mine to the right person in fact he was a confused little boy that knew nothing of love or caring. So yes its important I know that now but also if you do it then have no regrets. I dont regret that I did it I just think of it as a learning experience ( which I did learn a lot hahahahaha) Good stuff too! ;-)
2006-09-08 01:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by ask me again 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No - that's just a bunch of crap played up by silly people that read romance novels. Look at it this way - sex the first time is most likely going to suck. A lot. If you're a girl, it hurts and you might bleed. If you're a guy, you're probably going to come in about 10 seconds. You might as well do it with someone you're attracted to, but don't really have feelings for, or you might always associate the bad sex with them.
2006-09-08 01:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by trolling_for_recs 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES. the answer is always yes. ok, close your eyes and try to imagine this :
you are 50 years old, your grandchildren gather around you. being modern kids, they ask ya: was grandpa your first love? then you remember the guy you had lost your virginity to. he's a nice guy, a sweet talker, so sweet that he had successfully brought you home and got you on bed with him. but now, the guy is at home with his wife, he never even think of you! you were not even the first girl for him! what do u think? shud u just lost it to anybody or wait for the right person?
by the way, i'm a virgin and i'm proud of being one. i don't plan to lose it to just anybody but somebody called "husband".
2006-09-08 01:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by calixte 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say of course its important to do it with the right person. Because who needs to be just some random f*ck with someone? I would think a first time should be special and cherished. Not something you do so you can get it out the way.
2006-09-08 01:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
MANDY....you MUST be with someone you love or like. It IS SO important because without those special feelings that every female human relies on, you WILL feel ashamed and disappointed in the performance or result and you WILL carry that forever....just take your sweet precious time and always prepare .i wish you best of luck
2006-09-08 01:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by Necat T 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it depends how romantic of a person you are. if all you've ever dreamed of is the best sex of your life then , it wont matter much. Butif have had kinght in shining armour dreams then it'll be a huge deal. just ask yourself which type of person you are.
2006-09-08 02:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, very few people have "the perfect" first time. Most people are very nervous, very confused or very drunk, and half are doing it to get it over with rather than because they even love the person willing to accommodate them. That goes for boys and girls.
2006-09-08 01:20:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I didn't make a good choice for my first time. But I am older and wiser and do much better now with my choices. Life i s a journry
2006-09-08 01:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
For me it is, because I was raised and taught to be like that. For others, it might not. And I respect that but its your choice!
2006-09-08 01:17:22 · answer #10 · answered by epooji 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋