well we have been together for 2 years, the first 2 months of dateing he cheated on me, we werent very serious but It still hurt alot. tonight he came home smelling like prefume and he was drunk!! he told me his boss took him out for a bite to eat after work (his boss takes the workers out for food about once a month) so should I believe him or should I stop wasting my freaking time!?!?
2006-09-07 17:49:05 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were foolish to take him back after he cheated on you. Now you'll wonder where he's been every time he comes home late or drunk. Sounds to me like the boss took him out for more than a bite if he noticeably smealt of perfume. Would you move on already? You have the rest of your life ahead of you.
2006-09-07 17:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey I have to tell you I think the guy is not worth your time. YOu sound like a a nice sweet sensitive girl and you deserve a guy who will treat you like it. Dump the jerk, because there are so many guys out there it's just not worth being with a guy you dont trust even if he isn't lying to you. All you need to do is look at your heading to know how you really feel about him. If hes not doing it for you find a guy who will. Life is too short to waste on jerks
2006-09-07 17:54:15 · answer #2 · answered by david k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you should just dump him for good as a guy who doesn't have any respect for his lady should be made to suffer the emotional anguish same as he is putting you through.
If he did cheat you in the past and you didn't do anything about it, then I think you are happy with the whole scenario yourself.
I wouldn't advise you to tolerate such behaviours and if you think you can live with it, alll well and good. But keep your eyes very wide open and use your head.
2006-09-07 17:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-07 17:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last sentence of your question. Get somebody else that cares about you. Ignore the lesbian that says "why date men" because lesbians cheat on other lesbians too. Only date a woman if that's what YOU want, but it sounds like its time to get a new boyfriend.
2006-09-07 17:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking us if you hate your boyfriend, or are you telling us.
I think you answered your own question about 3 times.
1) "He cheated on me"
2) " He came home smelling of perfume, & he was drunk"
3) "I should stop wasting my freaking time"
2006-09-07 18:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wasting time, and go have a drink yourself with a friend at a bar. Sounds like you need a night out, and if you don't have kids then just don't go home.
2006-09-07 17:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He smells like perfume? EIther he's in the closet or some woman has been hanging on him. You don't smell like perfume just from having dinner...that's for d*mn sure! If you can't trust him, you're wasting your time. No good, successful relationship is without trust.
2006-09-07 17:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by Jenn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU ARE WITH SOMEONE THAT YOU DONT TRUST
AN DONT SEEM TO CARE AT ALL ABOUT THEN SWEETHEART WHY ARE YOU STILL THERE.. IF HE CHEATED 2 MONTHS IN THE RELATIONSHIP THEN THAT
SHOULD HAVE GIVEN YOU A CLUE. YOU NEED TO
MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL GIVE YOU
THE RESPECT THAT YOU DESERVE. THE LONGER YOU
CONTAIN TO BE WITH THIS GUY THE HARDER IT WILL]
GET TO LEAVE IT ALONG. I SAY ONCE A CHEATER ALL
WAY A CHEATER. THAT JUST HOW I FEEL. GOOD LUCK.
2006-09-07 17:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times has a cheated on you during your two years together? It's probably gonna keep happening.
Move on, and find another guy.
2006-09-07 17:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋