Ok so here's the deal I recently was with a girl and she said that I was "too nice" is there really such a thing? Girls how come you always say i hate my boyfriend he an a$$ hole and then when a nice guy like me comes around you aren't intrested? Im soo confused.. Girls your starting to piss me off!
2006-09-07 17:34:36 · 19 answers · asked by and1baller4life0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nice guys let their girl finish first (wink)
Yep, yer in da friend zone.
Dont be so nice?
I hate to say be an asshole... but.....
The women who stay with their abusive husbands who keep
putting them in the hospital... do it because "he loves me"
Try being a "bad boy" but dont rely on that attitude if its not
natural.
Keep being yourself, eventualy someone will notice.
The friend zone DOES have advantages:
An army of 10,000 girl who are "just friends"
can team up to help find you someone.
Lots of girls LOVE to fix up a guy friend.
an army of em has a good chance of sucsess.
2006-09-07 17:41:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ron K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just so you know I fell in love for a really nice guy he was not ready for that yet but I fall for guys very easily and had found one I thought I loved. I do love my hubby don't get me wrong but it's not the same as the way I love this other nice guy. We had a connection that I had with no one else. I will always feel something for him. My hubby can be an awesome guy and the nicest but then he can be an a**. He's almost always a smart a**. But my first choice would have been the other nice guy.
Looks don't matter. Neither were drop dead gorgeous but they are both good looking to me.
2006-09-07 17:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by agirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh yes... The old question.
Well, NICE is something you got to be careful about.
Too Nice doesn't mean your just nice and sweet, it means your quite wussy or weak. (or come across that way)
Women, instinctively need a partner who can protect them and make them feel safe and secure.
So, if you come across as Nice, sweet, thoughtful,--->
yet NOT ATTENTION seeking, confident (like you don't really need her and her approval doesn't matter to you) and take the lead often (yet don't be bossy), you'll do very well.
It's a balancing act between being a jerk and pushover - Find the right balance for you.. and it'll work.
Try joking, pulling her leg a few times - Humour works really well.
BUT NEVER make fun of yourself.. atleast don't do it more than once.
2006-09-07 17:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by El Diabl020 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a girls point of view we want a bad boy,strong independent,has lots of sprit just none of the bad boy behavior.They're is a thing as too nice though we want a guy that can hold his own in a fight if someone who calls us a rude name but also remembers are favorite flower and birthday.
2006-09-07 17:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Usually because the "nice guys" don't want to cause waves, they end up lettingthe girls walk all over them. Given time, anyone would loose respect for someone who is simply a "yes man"--even if that person is your girlfriend.
2006-09-07 17:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by thanos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some time you'll find some girl that likes nice guys. geez most of the guyz around here are jerks. sometime you'll find a nice girl that wont piss u off.
2006-09-10 04:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by sarah m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you this yur to nice is just and easy way of breakin up with a guy that they arent really into
Well some girls like to b treated badly for some reason and other girls just are to stuck up to realize what they have in the great good guys that they find
dont let any girl tell you yur to nice tell them they r just lookin for the wrong guy and when they realize what they lost they'll feel like assholes themselves
2006-09-07 17:50:02 · answer #7 · answered by SexyMandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's true. Happened to me many times. My revenge is that I won't give them the time of day after they've learned their lesson - I only go with those smart enought to not play that game in the first place, even if they're supposedly "ugly" to the rest of the world.
2006-09-07 18:25:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes sadly but true nice guys always finish last...heres the solution you gotta be a little of both...a nice guy and a asshole, keep it balanced and know when to show which side at the right moment. For example dont always be there for her when she wants you to be, but be there when she needs you to be.
2006-09-07 17:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by thomas c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its time you realized, we will never figure out these wonderful women, you just be yourself and the right one will come along who appreciates the nice guy, and if you finish last, just be glad you finished.
2006-09-07 17:36:57 · answer #10 · answered by Gary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋