are there still women out there still interested in a cowboy?

Answer 1

I went through a lot of trouble writing you an answer to your question "If beauty is a moment, who is a lifetime?" and then when I went to post it, you had removed your question.

Well, never say never, you're getting my freaking answer to that question whether you still want it or not cowboy. And here it is:

Hmm. I've been trying to make sense of your question. I've referred to the additional text you provided to try to help me, but, at the moment it's still pretty confusing. Add to that the fact that I'm a man, and the possibility that you are looking for answers from only women, although you didn't specify that, and I start to think that maybe I don't understand your question because I'm not a woman. But then, I get the impression that you have asked many women this question, and have yet to receive the answer you are seeking. So maybe my not being a woman doesn't make any difference because neither sex seems to be having luck finding the true meaning of your question.

From looking at your writing style, I suspect that English is not your primary language. And maybe that's the reason, you have yet to find someone with the answer you are seeking. The women just don't understand your question, so that's why they haven't given you the answer you are seeking.

You might think that if that's so, then why didn't they say so and ask for a clarification? Well, they may have been afraid to do so. They may have been afraid that you might find their asking for clarification to be insulting. You know, somewhat like saying you can't speak English very well. Women who care for you very much are often afraid of saying anything that might kill their chances of happiness with you (especially early in the relationship). Little did they know that giving in to their fears was in essense shooting themselves in the foot.

I've looked at your question at the word level and tried to find a clue as to what you are looking for in an aswer and what I've come up with (when also taking into consideration the additional text included beneath with your question) is as follows:

I see a connection between the word "moment" in the first part of your question with the word "lifetime" in the second part of your sentence. And I see the word "lifetime" as one that has an enormously larger value (in terms of time anyway) than the word "moment."

With those two words connected, I then see a connection between the word "beauty" in the first part of your question, and the word "who" in the second part of your question. Also, I suspect that the word "who" (if correctly used) would actually be the word "what." I then ask myself what the word "what" can represent that is of enormously greater value than beauty. You know, somewhat like the word "lifetime" has an enormously greater value than the word "moment."

So it's finally boiled down to what is more valuable than beauty. And keeping in mind that beauty is often said to be only skin deep, and that there is something much more valuable than beauty in life, I begin to think that what you are looking for from a woman is true love.

As for being tired of women who want to change you, it's true that some women do try to mold their mate into what they view as the ideal man. Some men try to do the same thing to women. I think everyone will agree that trying to change your partner is clearly not indicative of true love. It's more indicative of "I'll truly truly love you if you just change this one thing." I agree that this is not good in terms of trying to project an image of true love. Some people mention compromise, but I think that compromise and love are two different subjects. Compromise is indicative of not totally accepting, and love is indicative of totally accepting.

Yes, gold diggers want what you are, not who you are. And the fact that they want what you are is usually very obvious. But some men (not very smart ones in my opinion) go for that, so gold diggers can and often do thrive.

The woman who wants you for who you are (rather than what you are) is, I think everyone will agree, the one who truly loves you. And, fortunately for you, there are probably many out there like that. It's just a matter of connecting. Yahoo Personals might be of value. You may want to try it out.

If it's any consolation to you, let me share with you that I haven't found my woman yet either. Good luck to you in your search.

PS: Is LOVE the word you are looking for in your question?

Answer 2

Without a doubt - you guys are up there with firemen! I have a friend who called his boys Cody and Dan (supposedly cowboy names) to ensure they get laid when they are older. They are currently 4 and 2.... Noble intentions though.

Answer 3

Ah, come on now..........I live in Texas........
The SEXIEST MEN in the world are

Cowboys...

( and Indians.... and Italians...... lol!)