2006-09-07 17:21:44 · 16 answers · asked by Steven Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take a deep breath and just ask! It's nice to be asked out by a guy who's kinda shy instead of being someone who thinks he's god's gift to women. Remember to smile, and make eye contact. Good luck!
2006-09-07 17:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by california_michelle2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start off with a small chat. Talk about new movies that are going to be out and then... if she wants to watch that movie, you can say, "Oh I want to watch that, too. You want to go to the movies sometime this week to watch that?" I don't know, something like that lol.
Don't be scared or afraid if she is going to reject your offer. Sometimes, when girls reject your offer it's probably because she's shy and well... maybe doesn't want to go out with you? I really don't know.. because every girl is different when they say 'no.' Just have confidence when you're about to ask her. If you want, you can also say, "We can go as a big group - with your friends and mines."
2006-09-08 00:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by *a∙e∙r∙i∙t∙h* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really shy, try talking to the girl like a friend first. Ask her if she would like to hang out, it could be that she is shy too and scared to find out if you like her or not. Seriously, you'll never know until it could be too late.
2006-09-08 00:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by ambercrombie97@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, just ask her out. i was like you once. scare to ask a girl out cos i didnt want to get rejected. thats what being shy is, fear of rejection. all it got me was alot of regrets. well im over it now and i did it by taking the dive and asking a girl out. thats all you can do. you gotta think whats the worst that can happen. she will say no. compare that with the best that can happen. anyaway, just say hello to her and see if she wants to hang out. Movies or soemthing? goodluck dude
2006-09-08 00:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try first to become a good, frank and trusted frnd. Then u can just casually ask for an evening out together, adding that it'll be just for fun, between frnds.
2006-09-08 00:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by True_lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people suffer with shyness.
Just ask her if she would go have a coffee with you and think of her as your friend.
Some of the nicest friendships are between men and women .
As time goes by if it grows into something more meaningful fine but if not she wasn't the one but you still have a friend.
Take care!
2006-09-08 00:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start by being a friend first. Ask her questions about her interests. If she is respondsive to you and she seems comfortable with you after a few weeks of this small talk, then ask her to go to lunch with you.
2006-09-08 00:26:51 · answer #7 · answered by godsgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
humm well first get to know her and then ask her out then u should not be as shy if the girl is shy to u then she likes u
2006-09-08 00:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by kickers 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go up to her and take a chance. i WAS just like u once but it gets easier the more girls u ask out
2006-09-08 00:25:37 · answer #9 · answered by mexico 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I use to feel that way.
But what i did is i wrote letter to her to tell what my feeling is.
Second is, i call her.
Despite all this, i can only say, by approach her, you'll get more advantage. She can know you are not coward.
2006-09-08 00:27:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋