My husband and I are going through a rough time. He's always swearing at me (and infront of our children) and telling me lies. I don't think I can take it anymore. Please pray for us. Thanks (in advance).
2006-09-07 17:21:08 · 42 answers · asked by geskuh 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Everybody makes mistakes. Everybody Sins. I never said I was perfect. Neither one of us is close to being perfect. But I want a more Godly relationship between the two of us. I want God to be alive in our house.
2006-09-07 17:43:09 · update #1
I will not only pray for you but for your children and your husband as well. Please read your Bible if you have one at Psalms 55:22....I hope that this brings you some comfort and peace of mind..............Best wishes to you all.................
2006-09-07 17:25:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
I'm going to pray for you to pray for yourself because only you and God Himself understand exactly what you are going through now matter how much you type here on yahoo. Since the two of you have the best understanding of the situation, you will know the exact perfect choice of words to say to Him. As for now, I can say everything will be okay and that time heals everything! So relax and take it one step at a time. Good luck :)
2006-09-07 17:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
my prayers are with you, i went through the same thing with my husband, and i found out he was cheating on me and the quilt was just to much for him to handle. first off you need to sit down and make a list of the wost possible things that could be wrong consider if you can live with it or forgive him. then no matter what he tells you you will be ready to handle it. then go to him and say honey i love you. and i want things to be right between us tell me whats wrong and ill do my best not to judge you. this is what i did and even though it was hard i forgave him and we worked trough it and so far every thing has been going good. it hurt a lot but i forgave him I DID NOT FORGET tho and i never will. i made it clear that once is a mistake but to forgive him again would make me a fool. when men lash out at us its usually because of a guilty conscious
2006-09-07 18:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by Peace 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey Geskuh, I will pray - Do you have any spiritual influence in your life? If not you need to get back to your roots... It is obvious that you have some past spiritual influence. Go back - Dig deep - Dig your heels in and stay with it. God has not left you nor forsaken you - You can handle it...
2 Corinthians 12:10 Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ's sake: for when I am weak, then am I strong.
Get weak for a while - Let someone else be in control of your life (Jesus Christ) and then you will find your strength.
Already prayed but will some more... :) I can do all things through Christ who strenthens me. For your childrens sake - Try to stay and work it out - Not your way, but Christ way.
2006-09-07 17:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Keith C 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Happy to pray for you, but you did not ask what to pray for. So, I will pray for your safety (as well as your children's), for your trust & faith in Jesus, regardless of what improper things you hear or read, for God's peace that passes all understanding, for your husband's salvation, for physical, mental, emotional, & spiritual strength, for someone to minister to you personlly & not just through the Internet. I am also going to suggest 2 things, assuming you are praying for your husband on your own. Continue to read God's word every day, right now in the New Testament. The 2nd thing I suggest is that you seek out help, with church leaders & maybe professionally. Sometimes we grow stronger by the troubles God uses tools to prepare us for better things.
2006-09-07 17:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by Counselor 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You do not need prayers. What you need is a good counselor to work out the problems between you and his anger problems. Since you seem to be a Christian, I might suggest you scheduling sessions with a trusted clergyman or woman. If he refuses to go, that is saying a lot. All marriages are not made in heaven and he may not be the right person for you.
2006-09-07 18:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by diaryofamadblackman 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you want a more godly life then stop living with an a$$hole, get a divorce, and find a good man. You aren't going to change him, so stop wasting your time on him. I know this might sound harsh, but reality is reality.
2006-09-08 08:17:38 · answer #7 · answered by Niche Jerk 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I pray to god for you. I pray all your problem with your husband end. I pray for your children to learn a lesson from this that how hurt-full it is and don't do it to their wife and kids.
my advice to you is as long as he has not raise his hand there is a hope for there is no excuse or forgiveness for that. do not tolerate any abuse yet be kind. kindness brings kindness.
2006-09-07 17:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Geskuh, God helps those who help themselves. Your husband must be swearing at you for a reason. He must be lying for a reason. In a relationship both partners share equal responsibility for problems. What have YOU done to contribute to YOUR problems?
Please take responsibility for your equal portion of your problems, and take positive steps to fix it. Pushing the blame onto others (your husband) or looking to others to solve your problems (prayers) will not get you where you need to go. Our prayers for you will not work unless you take responsibility for your problems.
2006-09-07 17:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by Answers1 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I'll pray for you.
What he's doing isn't right, though. If you don't want to leave him, at least get some outside help -- try seeing a couple's therapist, perhaps?
2006-09-07 17:30:23 · answer #10 · answered by catwomanmeeeeow 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Will Do for Sure.
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2006-09-07 17:26:34 · answer #11 · answered by whynotaskdon 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋