i like my friends girl and so i am probly jealous i dunno but i dont like hanging out with him anymore, yea its immature maybe but i dont really care, is it dumb of me to give up a friendship like that, i mean, i have lots of other friends so...
2006-09-07 17:20:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the young and the restless..... well... really kinda dumb
2006-09-07 17:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by twigsky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its hard not feel jealous when somone new comes into the picture, but try not to show it in stupid ways-like a friend of mine did. She was very open about her jealousy towards any boyfriends I had, and it made her and me look stupid.
Just hang out with your other friends when you feel like it and hang out with the guy with the girlfriend or without her, when you feel like it-or more realisticly, when *he* feels like it! More than likey, they wont stay together for that long and you guys may be able to remain friends.
If they do stay together for a while, you might have to get her to set you up with one of her friends so you can double date!
2006-09-08 00:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by ShaMayMay 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Can't you just come out and tell your friend that you like his girlfriend? If you don't want to hang out with any more at least let him know why. Why not see if you can hook up with one of her friends. Maybe if you all stay friends one day they will break up and she'll come to you for a shoulder to cry on. There will be your chance.
2006-09-08 00:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is dumb because one friend will tell another friend and soon you will have no friends because you can't be trusted aroud their women. Personally, I would take it personally and when people I grew up with take things personally it gets painful, if you know what I mean. Consider that.
2006-09-08 00:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can like a friend but, when you like his girl it makes you have bad feelings toward him because he has what you want. It's an inborn emotion. People have been fighting over mates since time began.
2006-09-08 00:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yep, pretty dumb, never put relationships before friendships.
2006-09-08 00:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont give up your friendship bc you like his girl, get over the girl bc there are plenty of others out there.
2006-09-08 00:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by LaLa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you have to think what is more important to you? your friend or the girl ?. Is the girl even interested in you? and if so then go for it, and if not it's not worth it. reconsider!
2006-09-08 00:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by bubbles 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not dumb, its the way of the world.
Just wait until they break up and be there for one of them.
....and it sounds like youre more worried about your buddy than his girl.
2006-09-08 00:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by wishwash06 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what?
2006-09-08 00:23:09 · answer #10 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋