Can I still be a Christian if I'm having oral sex??

Question

I dont want to break up but i want to be a Christian. Is God mad at me? Can i be a Christian??

lay off the priest jokes. im serious.

Im not married.

why is everyone here thinking im gay??
im not- im straight!!!!

Answer 1

Oh.. if you are married, there should be no problem with it, I guess...

PS: If you're not married, then stop doing that. God is not mad at you but is more disappointed and hurt. :) He will forgive you if you say you're sorry and help yourself not to fall into temptations. You should know the answer to your Q, remember, you're not condemned. God is gracious.

Answer 2

The Old Testament requires that you don't spill your seed on the ground. I would have to look up the exact place in my Strong's Concordance.
A woman is not to lay with a woman as a man would.The same rule is for men. I couldn't tell you if oral sex was around in Biblical times. The passages about Sodom and Gomorrah don't specify oral sex although humans have included it in the category Sodomy. If your engaging in sex out of wedlock your entire sex life is out of the Will of God. The general rule is Hate the Sin Love the Sinner. According to Papal rules your not even supposed to use a condom. That is highly impractical with the HIV status.
If you want to be a Christian,you need to find a good Bible believing Congregation and Hear the Word for your self. Faith comes by Hearing. If you need more answers e-mail me. If you need help finding a Church Home let me know.

Answer 3

Being Christian is to be Christ like and not to purposely sin. If you know what your doing is wrong ( if your not married I do believe it is wrong) then you have to ask to be forgiven, mean it and try not to do it again. I have had so much oral sex in my younger years and not married and I was lucky not to catch anything and not to die before I was able to repent, then I had an affair when I was married and promised I would never have another and I feel like I was forgiven.Just read the Bible and take from it the message, that we are all sinners and will be forgiven, if we ask , but just don't do something knowing you can be forgiven after you do it.God is good and he's not mad, If your partner doesn't understand , well you really have to think about #1.

Answer 4

Oral sex with your spouse is fine. If you are having oral sex with someone you aren't married to it is immoral. But God doesn't hate you and you can still be a Christian. Christians are people just like everyone else. We still sin and make mistakes. We just know that Christ has forgiven our sins. The thing to do is to ask God to help you not do things that you know are wrong and to seek forgiveness if you have been doing something wrong. God Loves You no matter what you do.

Answer 5

if your married its just a small thing in gods eyes but not a deal breaker . you must ask yourself if i were god how would i view this . then youll have your answer . christian is just a word and its your beliefs that make your church which resides in your heart and no one can tare this down . god isnt in the dark about human nature and dosent exspect us to be perfect but only to love him and look to him for all things .hes a loveing and forgiveing god and nothing like we think he is . all people are his people and he made us and he knows all the sins we can do .if this gives you pain while your preying then stop doing it . if your partner dosent understand then enliten him then dump him if he wont be understanding in your faith . if your married oh then just have heart to heart with him and find common ground dont divorce over such a small thing . let god work for you if your a christian prey to him and belieave hes taken this problem and will solve it and then forget it . he will handle it

Answer 6

If you are a christian, you believe in, and live by the word of Christ... That word states that God loves you unconditionally, and more than you can even imagine.

As long as you are a positive force in the lives of all the people around you... giving of yourself to make their lives better, you are showing God that you love him back.

Does giving your BF a hummer negatively affect anyone? You can be a sexual being.. its OKAY, you're human.

Just make sure you follow your heart, and love those around you... that's what that Jesus guy was talking about. It's pretty simple.

Answer 7

For your information, being a Christian is being Christ-Like. How could you imagine Christ doing that?

It's a shame on Christ's part to admit you as a Christian. All parts of the body have purposes and proper way in dealing with them. If there is somethng appropriate to use for a certain organ in the body, why can't it be?

I don't see oral sex as something for Christians.. How could you not tolerate eating some kind of fish and you tolerate this? Ulk...

Christian?

Answer 8

Big_Brother,
Yes. But you have to trust God. God does not want your righteousness, he wants your trust.

Trust = Faith

Faith= an action, based upon belief, sustained by confidence.

The Bible tells you what promises God has given that you can trust Him with. E-mail me if you are serious. I don't see a whole lot of Christians telling it like this.

Answer 9

Since when did Christianity based on your sex life....
Pastors have had sex with their flock and not been punished?
Its only oral sex.... go for the lot and live without rules

Answer 10

Being a Christin is not predicated on sex. Its what you hold true inside that you believe in the Lord Jesus Christ as your Savior. That's it. However, sex before marriage is frowned on by the church. You may have to face your friends at church and thus yourself.