every one says that its OK for Muslim men to hit their woman?

Answer 1

huh, NO WAY. a man in no way or any given circumstances should beat or disrespect his women in his life. if he does that, then accd to Quran and Hadith, he is not a muslim.

QURAN
MEN AND WOMEN SHOULD PROTECT ONE ANOTHER
At-Taubah | 129 verses | Repentance سورة التوبة
Sura #9 | Madina

71 And the believers, men and women, are protecting friends one of another; they enjoin the right and forbid the wrong, and they establish worship and they pay the poor-due, and they obey Allah and His messenger. As for these, Allah will have mercy on them. Lo! Allah is Mighty, Wise.
72 Allah promiseth to the believers, men and women, Gardens underneath which rivers flow, wherein they will abide - blessed dwellings in Gardens of Eden. And - greater (far)! - acceptance from Allah. That is the supreme triumph.

Al-Baqara | 286 verses | The Cow سورة البقرة
Sura #2 | Madina
187. ...............They are raiment (garment) for you and ye are raiment (garment)for them.............

MUHAMMED-pbuh said
"when man marries, he completes half of his faith, the rest half of it is by serving Allah."

Muhammed-pbuh has said -- " the most perfect of the beleiver and the best of the character, the best of u are those among you who are best to their wives."

ISLAM SAYS RESPECT UR WIVES and DONT FORCE any one in marraige. and it says that if ur wife lacks in one virtue then dont turn ur face to her, but love her for her other virtues.
An-Nisa | 176 verses | The Women سورة النساء
Sura #4 | Madina

19 O ye who believe! It is not lawful for you forcibly to inherit the women (of your deceased kinsmen), nor (that) ye should put constraint upon them that ye may take away a part of that which ye have given them, unless they be guilty of flagrant lewdness. But consort with them in kindness, for if ye hate them it may happen that ye hate a thing wherein Allah hath placed much good.

ISLAM CONDEMNS WOMEN AS OBJECT OF LUST
but islam condemns swinging affairs and extra marital affairs.
An-Nisa | 176 verses | The Women سورة النساء
Sura #4 | Madina

20 And if ye wish to exchange one wife for another and ye have given unto one of them a sum of money (however great), take nothing from it. Would ye take it by the way of calumny and open wrong?
21 How can ye take it (back) after one of you hath gone in unto the other, and they have taken a strong pledge from you?

WOMEN AND MEN ARE EQUAL
An-Nisa | 176 verses | The Women سورة النساء
Sura #4 | Madina

1 O mankind! Be careful of your duty to your Lord Who created you from a single soul and from it created its mate and from them twain hath spread abroad a multitude of men and women. Be careful of your duty toward Allah in Whom ye claim (your rights) of one another, and toward the wombs (that bare you). Lo! Allah hath been a watcher over you.

Aal-e-Imran | 200 verses | The family of Imran سورة آل عمران
Sura #3 | Madina
195 And their Lord hath heard them (and He saith): Lo! I suffer not the work of any worker, male or female, to be lost. Ye proceed one from another.

WOMEN ARE HELP MATES OF MEN IN ISLAM
Ar-Room | 60 verses | The Romans سورة الروم
Sura #30 | Makkah
21 And of His signs is this: He created for you helpmates (women/wives) from yourselves that ye might find rest in them, and He ordained between you love and mercy. Lo! herein indeed are portents for folk who reflect.

ISLAM AND WOMEN'S RIGHT TO PROPERTY
An-Nisa | 176 verses | The Women سورة النساء
Sura #4 | Madina
7 Unto the men (of a family) belongeth a share of that which parents and near kindred leave, and unto the women a share of that which parents and near kindred leave, whether it be little or much - a legal share.

32 And covet not the thing in which Allah hath made some of you excel others. Unto men a fortune from that which they have earned, and unto women a fortune from that which they have earned. (Envy not one another) but ask Allah of His bounty. Lo! Allah is ever Knower of all things.

176 They ask thee for a pronouncement. Say: Allah hath pronounced for you concerning distant kindred. If a man die childless and he have a sister, hers is half the heritage, and he would have inherited from her had she died childless. And if there be two sisters, then theirs are two-thirds of the heritage, and if they be brethren, men and women, unto the male is the equivalent of the share of two females. Allah expoundeth unto you, so that ye err not. Allah is Knower of all things.

An-Nisa | 176 verses | The Women سورة النساء
Sura #4 | Madina
11 Allah chargeth you concerning (the provision for) your children: to the male the equivalent of the portion of two females, and if there be women more than two, then theirs is two-thirds of the inheritance, and if there be one (only) then the half. And to each of his parents a sixth of the inheritance, if he have a son; and if he have no son and his parents are his heirs, then to his mother appertaineth the third; and if he have brethren, then to his mother appertaineth the sixth, after any legacy he may have bequeathed, or debt (hath been paid). Your parents and your children: Ye know not which of them is nearer unto you in usefulness. It is an injunction from Allah. Lo! Allah is Knower, Wise.
12 And unto you belongeth a half of that which your wives leave, if they have no child; but if they have a child then unto you the fourth of that which they leave, after any legacy they may have bequeathed, or debt (they may have contracted, hath been paid). And unto them belongeth the fourth of that which ye leave if ye have no child, but if ye have a child then the eighth of that which ye leave, after any legacy ye may have bequeathed, or debt (ye may have contracted, hath been paid). And if a man or a woman have a distant heir (having left neither parent nor child), and he (or she) have a brother or a sister (only on the mother's side) then to each of them twain (the brother and the sister) the sixth, and if they be more than two, then they shall be sharers in the third, after any legacy that may have been bequeathed or debt (contracted) not injuring (the heirs by willing away more than a third of the heritage) hath been paid. A commandment from Allah. Allah is Knower, Indulgent.
13 These are the limits (imposed by) Allah. Whoso obeyeth Allah and His messenger, He will make him enter Gardens underneath which rivers flow, where such will dwell for ever. That will be the great success.

HONORED & EXALTED WOMEN IN ISLAM
EVE-pbuh
ur religion holds eve-pbuh as responsible for Fall of Mankind. but we say that both Adam and eve-pbut were responsible and they both were forgiven.
Taha | 135 verses | Taha سورة طه
Sura #20 | Makkah

117 Therefor we said: O Adam! This is an enemy unto thee and unto thy wife, so let him not drive you both out of the Garden so that thou come to toil.
118 It is (vouchsafed) unto thee that thou hungerest not therein nor art naked,
119 And that thou thirstest not therein nor art exposed to the sun's heat.
120 But the devil whispered to him, saying: O Adam! Shall I show thee the tree of immortality and power that wasteth not away?
121 Then they twain ate thereof, so that their shame became apparent unto them, and they began to hide by heaping on themselves some of the leaves of the Garden. And Adam disobeyed his Lord, so went astray.


MARY- a.s -- even today ur society says shameful things about mary -a.s, but we say that she is honored.
Aal-e-Imran | 200 verses | The family of Imran سورة آل عمران
Sura #3 | Madina

42 And when the angels said: O Mary! Lo! Allah hath chosen thee and made thee pure, and hath preferred thee above (all) the women of creation.

MARY AND HER MIRACLE BIRTH OF JESUS-pbuh
45 (And remember) when the angels said: O Mary! Lo! Allah giveth thee glad tidings of a word from him, whose name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, illustrious in the world and the Hereafter, and one of those brought near (unto Allah).
46 He will speak unto mankind in his cradle and in his manhood, and he is of the righteous.
47 She said: My Lord! How can I have a child when no mortal hath touched me? He said: So (it will be). Allah createth what He will. If He decreeth a thing, He saith unto it only: Be! and it is.
48 And He will teach him the Scripture and wisdom, and the Torah and the Gospel,
49 And will make him a messenger unto the Children of Israel, (saying): Lo! I come unto you with a sign from your Lord. Lo! I fashion for you out of clay the likeness of a bird, and I breathe into it and it is a bird, by Allah's leave. I heal him who was born blind, and the leper, and I raise the dead, by Allah's leave. And I announce unto you what ye eat and what ye store up in your houses. Lo! herein verily is a portent for you, if ye are to be believers.
50 And (I come) confirming that which was before me of the Torah, and to make lawful some of that which was forbidden unto you. I come unto you with a sign from your Lord, so keep your duty to Allah and obey me.
51 Lo! Allah is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path.

Answer 2

According to Islam, women are to be submissive to their husbands. Husbands may punish them in a just way. Sadly, some men take this the wrong way and make their own rules about what is just punishment. No where in Islam does it justify hitting another person. You can find men of all religions saying that their God tells them to physically punish their wives. No holy book states this. So these men are sinning.

Media has messed things up lately. Muslims practice Islam and their religion is loving. But some men have separated themselves from the true religious beliefs and rules and started their own 'denomination'. These Muslims aren't good people. Just like Catholic priests that molest boys and Amish men that rape their female relatives. The media tends to show us the negative and don't explain fully who these individual people are. Every main religion has "subdivisions". So don't believe that all Muslim men beat their wives. True Muslim men that religious obey their Islam religion are good people. We tend to just hear about the bad ones that have fallen away.

Answer 3

My husband is Muslim and we pronounced this at tremendous length earlier we married. The Qur'an is amazingly certain as to even as it really is permitted, and precisely the way it will be performed. (that does no longer advise that he will ever contact me, and he has promised that he under no circumstances would.) He respects and loves me like a real guy ought to. And actual, I stay in a Muslim us of a and that i have not witnessed any violence in direction of ladies the following, through their husbands or every person else. also, my husband is a community the following and he does no longer understand of any guy who has surely used this portion of the Qur'an as an excuse to damage his spouse. you're precise to have a complicated time believing that it really is worry-free in Islam by using the indisputable fact that isn't. My first husband change right into a Christian and that i visit promise you that he under no circumstances dealt with me besides as my new husband. That first marriage change into complete of abuse, ignore and disrespect. I journey none of that now.

Answer 4

it is not ok or good for ;any man to hit a woman. a man should not take the opportunity of his being ;stronger that a woman to hit her and this refers not only to muslim but to all men. woman was created or made to be woman to be loved by ;a man and to be respected of her womanhood

Answer 5

No Muslim men can hit thier women. Who ever told you that,doesnt know anything about Islam

Answer 6

it's ok as a last resort after using the best psychological approaches.
[4:34] The men are made responsible for the women, and GOD has endowed them with certain qualities, and made them the bread earners. The righteous women will cheerfully accept this arrangement, since it is GOD's commandment, and honor their husbands during their absence. If you experience rebellion from the women, you shall first talk to them, then (you may use negative incentives like) deserting them in bed, then you may (as a last alternative) beat them. If they obey you, you are not permitted to transgress against them. GOD is Most High, Supreme.


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thanks and peace be with you!!

Answer 7

Any man that hits his woman is a piece of $hit.

Answer 8

it is never okay for a man--Muslim or not--to hit a woman

Answer 9

Does this mean it is okay to hit men?

Answer 10

All I can tell you is that if *any* guy hits me, he'd better make sure I never get up. If I do, whatever deity he believes in won't be able to help him.

Answer 11

who says that? it's never ok to hit a woman. i don't care what religion you practice! wrong is wrong!