I lost the love of my life...The man I wanted so much to marry and spend the rest of my life with! He, however, didn't feel the same. We were so good together and were best friends. How do I get over a broken heart?
2006-09-07 17:09:09 · 26 answers · asked by zoo keeper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh my gosh...we've all been there and hate going back. We feel your pain, truly we do. Like everyone has said, time is a great healer. You might also want to talk to anyone and everyone that will listen to you. The more you talk about it rather than hold it in will also help. Eventually, you get tired of talking about him...and starting thinking about you.
Something I told a dear friend of mine a few months ago...you can't meet Mr. Right if your still dating Mr. Wrong.
Life is to short to spend one minute of it wishing we were with someone that doesn't want to be with us. Enjoy the goodness within you and the person that wants to be a part of it will come along at the most unsuspecting time.
.A.
2006-09-07 17:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've soooo been there. And I'm sorry because that feeling in your stomach will be there a long time. That's my best advice -- just expect to take a while. I would take some time off from dating, if you meet someone that is great, but don't look too hard.
Just give it some time. Do your best to stay active with your friends and work or school.
someday you will find someone new -- I did! And even though I sometimes still think of the guy who broke my heart, my husband is so much a better fit for me. With every relationship, you learn more about yourself and what type of person will be your best partner.
2006-09-07 17:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds harsh but it's better to know now than later. Things happened for a reason. The begining of a break up is the hardest to deal with. Try to put all the pictures you took with him away...Find support in friends and families....Time will heal your wounded heart. Don't drown youserlf with sorrow go out and have a great time. Maybe take a short trip to visit a friends or so...
2006-09-07 17:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by uniqaznmeg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too, am dealing with soreness at present from a relationship so i'm able to relate to that area. As on your mothers and dads taking part in protectors, that isn't something new. they are attempting to shelter you from what they experience would be far worse than the soreness you're experiencing now. yet, you're able to tell them that's mandatory to journey existence first hand for your self. you're able to enable them to comprehend that they are in a position to't preclude you from making blunders, it incredibly is the way you will study from them and advance. i do no longer understand how previous you're and picture it incredibly is an irrelevant actuality, yet, while you're below their roof, then you definitely could desire to abide by their policies. in spite of each and every thing, they are your friends. yet, no longer something will shop you from making your very own alternatives, your mothers and dads comprehend this. it rather is the reason the heightened risk-free practices is into play. they are attempting to hold onto the "little female" that has grown up. carry on on your emotions if the guy is properly worth it. destiny would be useful. Promise. Be sturdy.
2016-09-30 11:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would have to find that answer deep with in yourself. If he feels you are not worthy to be with him you should take into consideration that you are beautiful inside and out and any guy should be worthy of that ...It sounds like this guy doesn't like a real woman just the ones he can throw away and mark on his chalk board....i know it's hard to even throw away losers ,but when you think about all the real facts about him you'll be over him in no time I'm sorry and good luck girl .....just remember there are 50-men to 1 woman in this world so ther is a lot of hunkies out there...=)
2006-09-07 17:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds cliche but only time can heal your broken heart. When you feel ready find a new man and it will make you forget even quicker. Just keep reminding yourself it wouldn't of worked if he didn't feel the same. Better to know now than later.
2006-09-07 17:12:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts. But you will make it. I have been in the same boat, and actually lost the love of my life in a car wreck 5 years ago. Atleast you got some closure. But you find things that you are interested in, that you never had time for because you were dating and you start doing them. You can paint, write, etc. Remember, Life is not about finding yourself, it is about creating yourself.
2006-09-07 17:12:52 · answer #7 · answered by misti c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is really the only thing that will make the pain go away. Try taking up additional activities to keep your mind off things. You will get through this even though it sucks right now.
2006-09-07 17:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by all1g8r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crushed,
I'm so sorry.
Think of it this way,
better that it happened
now and not later on
when you could have
been married.....
You will cry, you
will be angry, you
will think about him,
and all the above are
a healthy part of the
healing process,
but you also need
to take little steps
to move on.
Somewhere, out there,
is your soulmate, and
he will come when
you least expect it,
so be ready!
Good luck my friend...
2006-09-07 17:15:14 · answer #9 · answered by vim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you feel like you are never going to smile again and that you have been kicked in the gut but honey you just have to keep breathing in and out and it will get better as time goes by I promise
2006-09-07 17:12:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋