Well, I'm 14, and I'm not really allowed to have a boyfriend, which sucks. I date anyway, but I haven't been able to go anywhere w/ him because of my freakin mom... What should I do? I mean, I don't like DO anything w/ him, but I'd like to go somewhere, like the movies.... any advice?
2006-09-07 16:58:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is something you'll have to work out with your mom. Ask her if maybe it would be alright if you went with a group and not just the 2 of you or to more open public place where you'll have little chances to be too alone. Your mom is doing this to protect you not make you mad or make you hate her. Show her that you are mature enough to handle a boyfriend. Give her something to trust. What ever you do don't do it behind her back she will find out and then it will be bad for you. Good Luck.
2006-09-07 17:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by happy_cute_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First stop sneaking around behind your mother's back. If she finds out it may be a lot longer till you are allowed to date. Sit down with her and talk to her, calmly and ask her if you are with a group, could you go to the movies or wherever. She probably doesn't want you alone with a boy and at 14, I agree. Boys at that age have only one thing on their young minds. You are too young, don't try to grow up so quickly.
2006-09-07 17:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The boys your own age are far too immature .... the older ones are interseted in what your mother fears the most ... making you a hit -n- run on the sex intersatate .... Just be with your friends ... do the group gathering thing to see movies ... learn to flirt ...talk the talk and just play ... there is plenty ot time to find the "keeper" later ... right now there under the limit or poaching !!!
Listen to your mother !!
2006-09-07 17:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated 2 adult men who were shorter way shorter than me (i'm quite tall). One lasted a 365 days and the different 2 years. You do get stares and individuals have had evaluations about it. yet I in no way cared and also you ought to not both :) if she makes you satisfied that ought to need to be all that concerns
2016-11-06 21:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your mom. Tell her that it is better you have a healthy relationship that she knows about and you can ask advice about, rather than one behind her back. Ask her if she disagrees with that. Plus secretive relationships always hurt the one who you're dating. He will feel like you are either ashamed of him, or don't think of him as being important enough for your parents to know. It won't matter what you'll tell him. Thats what he will feel inside.
2006-09-07 17:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by itslate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize to your mom for your choice of adjectives and try and get him to win her trust. You can't do that for him and he should be willing to do that for you. Your mother is just doing what parents should do , keep you from having sex as long as possible. Give her credit having been where you are now and not wanting you to get hurt at a young age if ever.
2006-09-07 17:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mention to your mom, if she remembers being 14? and see what she says. let her know that she can trust you. if she does let you eventually, be hom at the time she says and so on. eventually she will learn that she can trust you and she will let you do more. for the time being, let her know that you are just going out to the movies with friends. but remember what i said. goodluck
2006-09-07 17:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the parent in me say mind you mom. the kid i was says to go with your best friend and have him meet you somewhere where you mom will let you and your bf go. again the kid in me says don't tell your mom he is going to be there
2006-09-07 17:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 14 your grown now you should do what you want forget your mom and do the horizontal mambo have fun
2006-09-07 17:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14 you don't need to be dating, you need to focus on your education.
2006-09-07 17:00:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋