My friends and I are going to Jamaica for thanksgiving. they are all married and I am just casually dating. The girl I have the most feelings for is kind of flake at times. i am afraid if I ask her, she will delay a response or maybe not even go at all. But isn't just rude to have your back-up date be asked first, or if something more develops between me and the flake, how weird would that be?? ...Now I am thinking about going stag... just to prevent to much drama...what to do...come on YA, someones got to help a brotha out on this one!!!
2006-09-07 16:29:21 · 20 answers · asked by O Jam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For the reord, i am jamaican and I am not a sleeze....So thier wont be any "pickin up" along the way...And no I won't be paying, for her flight, I have already taken care of the rent a car and accomodations!!
2006-09-07 16:38:47 · update #1
Any girl you ask to go with you is gonna think your more serious about the relationship than you probably are. Thats mainly because a major trip like that seems serious. Maybe you have a girl you know that is just a friend that would be great to hang with on this trip.
2006-09-07 16:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a flake why would you want her there or even want to date her. take the one you know you will have fun with and that won't get you killed by some foreign disease or animal. If it is a couples thing going alone won't be all that fun. But if you ask the other girl you really need to make sure you are not going to uninvite her because that is just wrong. And oh yeah you are paying for her trip too right?
2006-09-07 16:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the flake, but let her know you will not be going alone, and that you need an answer from her almost immediately. No matter who you go with, you can still meet someone there, but if you don't, you already have someone. Besides, it would make all your couple friends more comfortable, if they don't feel they have to entertain you.
2006-09-07 16:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go stag - it's not worth waiting for the flake to give you a definite answer. Or find someone else to ask.
2006-09-07 16:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to pick one for now and set a deadline when you need to know if this person is going or not.Otherwise you may end up with a messy problem later.
2006-09-07 16:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are going with your friend to Jamaica and ask her if she wants go with you. If not go with your friends - there is a lot of girls waiting to shear good time with you anyway.
2006-09-07 16:35:12 · answer #6 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, blow them both off and swing by the Dominican - legalized prostitution with hotties from all over the world working there.
2006-09-07 16:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by say wat? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look just ask her she will tell you if she wants to go or not and she might surprise you love dont just happen you gotta make it work she might be happy that you asked and probably would love to spend thanksgiving with you in jamaica
2006-09-07 16:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a chance.. take the flake!
u like her, so follow ur gut
have fun in jamaica when u go!!!
2006-09-07 16:32:47 · answer #9 · answered by weeklly_drama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go stag & have a hot fling while in Jamaica
2006-09-07 16:31:51 · answer #10 · answered by Cap'n Donna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋