This happens all the time, at church, at the bank, at the store, at the movies. These are married men that I know from church. But when I see them in the community, they start making all kinds of suggestive comments and some are even bold enough to ask me out on a date.
I've dated a few of them before I knew about them being married. Then I was embarassed to see this one guy sitting a church with his wife and kids.
Besides, I'm more physically attracted to Muslim men than to Christians.
2006-09-07 16:24:12 · 34 answers · asked by Ask Donna 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Honey1 it is hard for cat to pass butter, it is hard for ants to refuse sugar, it is impossible for water not to go down hill and knowing how beautiful and sexy you are, it is hard for us men not to want you in our beds.
2006-09-07 16:28:06 · answer #1 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men are men, wheather they are christians, jews, muslims or other, they will all look and some may want to sleep with a female who pays them attention. If you really and truly think they all want to "date" you then your little disillusioned world is really warped. How about you stop flirting with them in the first place, and find something more productive to keep you busy during church. Besides if you prefer Muslim men, what are you doing in church? Try Mecca that's where they congregate. Good luck
2006-09-07 16:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by arubishka 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do married men flirt with you? Why does any man flirt? Why do you flirt back? You have your answer.
You talk about being attractive. Maybe you should be focus on relationships. I see you attend a Christian church. Maybe you should do a word study of adultery in the New Testament. Adultery requires two people where one is married.
1 Cor. 10:23-24.
2006-09-07 16:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by J. 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They are what I call pretend christians. A real christian is not going to cheat on a spouse. This is a hypcrit. Hope you like to be controled because Muslim women have no rights and their husbands have all the rights over them. I would think long and hard before I got involved with a Muslim.
2006-09-07 16:27:46 · answer #4 · answered by ELIZABETH 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A married man would always be cautious to approach another woman, but if somehow they saw in you a "chance" they will approach you, perhaps you give them "sign" to approach you.. or youre the one who flirts first, or that is your real character (unconciously you dont know that your lovable and irresistable)
say you are more attacted to muslim men? ok just be ready that a muslim can marry 4-12 wives .. you ok with that?
2006-09-07 16:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by zac821 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you see them in church doesn't mean they are Christian men. If this is the way they act then they are not Christian.
2006-09-07 16:33:25 · answer #6 · answered by marvs36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christian men are still "men" However perhaps your reading it a "flirt" when it is just them being friendly.
I don't believe your story... (Besides, I'm more physically attracted to Muslim men than to Christians.)
There is no PHYSICAL difference between a Muslim man and a Christian man.
2006-09-07 16:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by jadamgrd 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like these Christian men are dogs. They only believe the parts of the Bible they want to believe. They is why many Christian men cheat on their wives, cheat in business, and justify war.
2006-09-07 21:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds bogus to me but I'll bite.
Married Christian men do this for the same reason children steal candy from the store, people steal cars, people curse and flip people off, the same reason people get into fights . . . . We are ALL imperfect and we are ALL unworthy of Heaven. (That's why Jesus died for our sins; He's our atonement. He paid our debts in full.)
Married Christian men, Islamic men, Jewish men, and athiest men . . .it doesn't matter. We are ALL capable of the same sins.
We ALL sin because God gave us free will, we're weak, and the devil tempts us and decieves us.
Good luck.
2006-09-07 17:06:45 · answer #9 · answered by Hank 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats not a church your going to but a social club if there are that many men from it hitting on you and just because people say they are Christian don't make it so. Jesus said by their fruits you shall know them.
2006-09-07 16:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well you can't exactly say "christian" men. If i guy flirts with you, he doesn't know nothing about you and you don't know much about him. Watch how you dress, act, and look when your infront of men. Not just christian men either.
2006-09-07 16:26:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋