hey.. ok this is the deal.. im confused there are so many things while having sex that i'm not sure if i'm the one who is suppose to enjoy or is it him/. i mean there are times where he acts on me and it seems that he enjoys it more than me.. i mean is there like a list or somthing that i can say.. ok i'll like this or he;ll like this more so i got work on it more for him./i know ppl have diff prefrencese but i',m talking in general..what do most guys prefer to be done..or is it whatever works?..
2006-09-07 16:06:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, it's perfectly normal to feel this way. The whole point of sex is mutual bonding... or mutual pleasure... depending on your point of view. Sometimes you want to make him happy, other days he's going to want to make you happy. But for the most part, you should both be having a rockin good time.
As for those little turn on's and turn off's - the only way to know is to ask. Each person is different. And if they can't answer your question, then keep your mind open, and try new things every once in a while. You might just find a hot button that sends them over the edge!! :)
2006-09-07 16:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by Lady_Knight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im not really sure what u are asking but first off different people have difference preferences as to what they like but i have never, ever, ever, met a guy who doesnt enjoy getting some head . it can be fufilling for both of u. him bc it feels incrediable, you bc u have the power over him to make him weak in the knees. im not sure what ur guy is in to but i know he is into that for sure.
2006-09-07 16:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by the_kid_doesnt_care 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep the communication open and talk about what each other likes to be done. Don't be shy and just be forward on pleasuring each other. It will make for a long sex life.
2006-09-07 16:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by tman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
both people are suppose to enjoy it there is no list just say things that you like and don't try and make it any better for him it sounds like he likes it good enough you need to make it better for you if he don't do it for you then you need to find someone who does
2006-09-07 16:10:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both meant to be enjoying it. If you like something or you want to experiment, let him know.
2006-09-07 16:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both should be enjoying it. Give different ideas and try them
2006-09-07 16:10:27 · answer #6 · answered by jane f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, you both should be enjoying it..
start out by giving massages to each other (this way you can learn what you each like)
then ask him what he likes to be done, and you tell him the way you like to be touched
2006-09-07 16:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Lisa♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should both enjoy it... if your not enjoying it as much as he seems to be, maybe try guiding him or tell him what youd like...
2006-09-07 16:22:50 · answer #8 · answered by Reaction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's more worried about his pleasure than yours, than theres a problem. Worry about yours too. And guys like it when their woman is having pleasure,it gives them pleasure.
2006-09-07 16:13:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should first tell him how you want to be touched. seriously.
he will love to hear that . you will find it more enjoyable as well.
enjoy. =)
2006-09-07 16:09:10 · answer #10 · answered by City hunter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋