I have always had guys give me attention, talk to me, and tell me how pretty I am but for some reason they never ask me out. What is it about me that makes guys look at me but not take any action?
2006-09-07 15:57:55 · 21 answers · asked by Dewdlebug 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you want to go out sometime?
2006-09-07 15:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by s_e_e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ten tips frm a guy point of view 1. Eye contact- keep it strong 2. Talk- have something to talk about that both u guys are interested in 3. Clothes- comfortable clothes that are clean should be worn and impressive but not LOUD 4. Talk at the other persons level- talk at same volume and pace 5. Interests- BE INTERESTED in whatever the person is saying 6. Listen- pay attention whenever that person talks 7. Manners- show mannerism (friendliness) to build respect 8. Confidence- show guts and go up to that person to talk 9. be Helpful- if that person needs help, HELP them or try to 10. SMILE
2016-03-27 02:15:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you're more than a little bit shy/passive around guys. Are you sure these guys know you're interested? The next time you are with a guy you like, try flirting a little - smiling, maintaining eye contact, touching your hair, touching his arm, leaning toward him a little. This will help him know that you like him, and perhaps give him the confidence to ask you out.
2006-09-07 16:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sandra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is because they get intimidated by your beauty. You and I have the same exact problem. At my school, guys think I'm totally gorgeous and hot, but they fail to ask me out. Just try to act more comfortable around them so they can feel as though you're available to them.
2006-09-07 16:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you intimidate them a little. Allot of guys wont even try if they think there isn't a chance. You might have to make the first move.
2006-09-07 16:01:01 · answer #5 · answered by noname 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out - to a poetry slam, or a coffee house, or to a movie! The rules have changed.
Be assertive. Put your self out there, I guarantee just thinking that you want to ask him will start something. Have fun.
2006-09-07 16:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by soxrcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's alright if you make the first move. Some guys like that and if a girl did that to me and she was really attractive then I would love that.
2006-09-07 17:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by jslick95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are probably intimidated by your beauty. If you are interested in the guy, maybe you can make the 1st move.
2006-09-07 16:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by Al J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're probably unconciously giving off the impression that you're either unavailable or not interested. beleive it or not when it comes to that, i think guys really pay attention body language
2006-09-07 16:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by SweetnSour 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not saying that this is you but most girls that are attractive give the "you can't have me" vibe this is a deterent for guys.
2006-09-07 15:59:54 · answer #10 · answered by John S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably they thought you where just to good for them. Sorry to hear about that, but maybe i can start a new path for you. Email me:)
2006-09-07 16:02:50 · answer #11 · answered by Khristian B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋