I'm 6'2 and 160 lbs, but I look more like I'm 130 lbs for being so tall. Aparently women don't like this. Can any ladies out there tell me if I'm wrong? The more I face rejection, the more shy I become, to the point where I can't even muster up the guts to talk to a woman anymore. It's a viscous cycle...any help left for me?
2006-09-07 15:55:16 · 15 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
different people prefer different traits and there's usually someone for everyone. i actually PREFER skinny guys so there's definately a woman out there who would want u. don't give up
2006-09-07 15:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by SweetnSour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got that right. It is a horrible downward spyral. Everyone's got preferences. Some girls like big guys. Some girls like cut guys. Some short, tall, skinny, round, etc. There are plenty of girls out there who likes a skinny guy. I like skinny guys. I don't 'prefer' skinnny guy's as I really don't have a body type preference. I just find some guys attractive and others not so much. Don't let this get you down that way by the time your body starts holding onto more of your food you won't be too shy. Rejection is common for all of us. It'll happen plenty. Don't let it get you down. Once you find the right 'one' for you, you'll be glad you kept at it.
2006-09-07 22:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? Many women love skinny guys...myself included! Sometimes there is nothing sexier than a skinny guy...especially if they are really emo looking (black rimmed glasses, shaggy hair..mmmmm) lol. Of course there is also nothing sexier than confidence...so get some more of that and take some chances! good luck
2006-09-07 23:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by Dewdlebug 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every woman on earth wishes she needed to gain weight!!!! You must be talking about girls,not women. Women are not that interested in looks. We are concerned with what is inside you.....
we look at ALL of you.....mostly your personality...I know a man who is brilliant,funny and very kind. Someone asked me to describe his looks....I had trouble remembering....I just love HIM.
2006-09-07 23:00:00 · answer #4 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Loads of girls love tall, skinny guys. Really.
It sounds like you're worrying too much or coming across as too desperate. Just relax and be yourself.
2006-09-08 00:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take heart, Chris! Lots of girls love skinny guys. In fact, all the guys I've dated have been skinny.Just be yourself, Someone's gonna come along soon. :-)
2006-09-08 13:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have trouble with women, but they finally came around and I can't keep them off of me. Just be yourself and they will learn to like you I promise you.
2006-09-07 22:57:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ain't a girl homeboy but check it: it's all about the delivery, your style, and how you portray yourself. have confidence, swagger. I'm 5ft9 154 been skinny my whole life, and my game tight.
2006-09-07 22:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by Ju Lover Supreme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry too much about the girls, focus on your self dive into a passion, work out improve yourself and surley they will come to you, give it time.
2006-09-07 22:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by kebbler80011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they won't talk to you because they think your not packing.
eat 3 raw eggs every day and bulk up then watch the ladies say wow. lol
2006-09-07 22:58:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋