i love this gir in my ttriginometry class, she is russian, and i am american, but she looks at me periodically, and i her. i woud really like to be with her(not in a sexual way) but perhapse some day . she is hot, tan, and sexy... i just dont have the guts to ask her out..
2006-09-07 15:46:05 · 12 answers · asked by Mr.LoNlEy95963 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Part of your problem is you are describing the situation as if you have elevated her above how you feel about yourself. You wrote that you "love this girl" yet you haven't even been out with her yet. You also wrote that you "don't have the guts to ask her out." You've got to let that infatuation go to make this work. Attitude is everything in the beginning.
Doesn't matter what you say as far as lines and all that. It's all in how you carry yourself, and your demeanor as you approach her. She's got to see you as a date candidate first, before you start asking.
There is a two step process for getting someone to think of you as a prospective date, and then asking them out.
First, is the approach, 2nd is the connection.
Approach:
Follow these simple approach steps to get her thinking of you as a guy she would go out with:
1. Relax
2. Have a positive attitude
3. Think about her, not you, before walking up to her
4. Make eye contact (but don't just stare)
5. Smile
Watch her body language before the next step. If she's playing with her hair or jewelry or rubbing her leg, and if you've got her smiling, you can ask her anything. Just make sure it's something she can't say no to. Don't just blurt out, "do you want to go out?" It may work, but if it doesn't, you just hit a dead end. Instead, follow these steps...
The Connection:
1. Be calm - don't seem rushed or in a hurry
2. Ask open questions at first, ones that she can't say yes or no to.
3. Don't talk too much - let her talk, you respond.
4. Be confident, but have a sense of humor
5. Don't talk about yourself. Ask about her interests, let her answer fully, then follow up on what she says.
Use this new information to direct where you're heading next, which is toward anything she would likely say yes to. If you get her to respond to several questions with a yes, you can then ask her if she'd like to engage in any of the activities she's told you she likes that you also like.
2006-09-07 16:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by The Answer Dog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking a girl out is a thing every man face for the rest of his life.
One you most have the GUTS to tell her as you talk to a friend.
secondly you most prepare your mind for any answer.
Thirdly you most not be shock of her answer
You most not feel rejected or dissappointed.
The answer will be YES or NO.
This are the things you face in asking a date.
If the answer is No give her a space for some time at list a month and ask her out again and be used to her. Do not force a girl to a date she will alway dislike you.
Do not have complex of youself she mighty be interested in you or not the only way to find out is ask.
On her willingness you will enjoy the time with her.
2006-09-07 16:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by R.I.A 30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well good luck to you. I'm a guy and asked out one girl before and we went out for a while. The hardest thing is actually getting the guts to ask her out. I kept thinking of everything that could happen. When the moment came, I said will you go out with me, and she said sure. There is no real foolproof plan, but once again...good luck.
Ps. If you could answer my question I'd apprecieate it :-)
2006-09-07 15:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by matrx1221 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem. I never asked her and she got a boyfriend. I later found out thatshe liked me as much or more than the guy she was with. when they broke up she didn't like me anymore. well, i don't think she does. I almost asked her out yesterday but didn't (kicking self in the head) my advice, ask her before it is too late. i don't care how just make sure you do it.
2006-09-07 15:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by stretch2390 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if she would like to eat lunch with you or go get a soda from the soda machine at school. catch her before class and walk with her just to chat about nothing like what music she likes. if you've noticed some of her interests you can bring up some subject pertaining to that and go from there. become her friend first, hang out and make her laugh.
2006-09-07 15:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get to know her more you're on the right track it seems like she's attracted to you but be her friend first and then when you guys are really good friends just go "if I asked you out would you go out with me?" you're not really asking but if she says yes then go for it if she says no be even more friendly if she says "why" say just curious...hope it works out
2006-09-07 15:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by ♥MG789♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are u doing this weekend? wanna draw close out after college? wanna pass to ( journey happening at recent) with me? or supply her a praise ( like ur nails, hair, blouse, shoes) be easy and ask her how her days going? something new? best of success
2016-10-15 23:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stuff your wallet real thick then make up some reason to pull it out as you are asking her. All women looks that the size of a man wallet
2006-09-07 15:49:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her a email or something or write a secret admirers not or something i dont know go up and talk to her and get some guts while talking to her you never know ask her to the movies or something some time
2006-09-07 15:47:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your waiting on a woman to make up her mind...your gonna be waiting for a long time:)
2006-09-07 15:47:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋