I want to start dating soon...I'm 20 not rush anything of course, but what interests most women...how do you know when your boring them? How can you get them to open up and enjoy themselves?
2006-09-07 15:38:28 · 25 answers · asked by gunslinger08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make it short and try not to be funny .
2006-09-07 15:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well, first off, women aren't some big, identical group. Even jellybeans come in different flavors.
Go places where people are doing things you enjoy, and you'll meet women who are at least interested in that, which gives you one thing to talk about that interests you both.
After that, well, nobody ever got lonely by asking people to talk about themselves and really listening to the answers. Eye contact is good, and the little signals that say "I'm listening," like nodding, facial expressions, questions. Tell yourself that this woman knows something you desperately need to know, if only you can get her to talk about herself until you find it.
It's true - you need to know if you want to ask her out, and you'll only find that out by getting to know her. If she's not the one, she might still make a good friend, and know someone who would be "just perfect for you."
The boredom signals are even easier - looking away, not responding to things you say, leaning back, leaving.
Lots of extension classes offer flirting classes - as goofy as they sound, if your social skills missed the section on dating, they can be worthwhile. You learn to read body language. Good luck!
2006-09-07 22:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is order the dating dictionnary.Go on www.doclove.com and read some of the testimonials. Then listen to one or two of the archived radio shows. If you like what you hear(I'm sure you will) order the dating dictionnary aka "The system". It will revolutionize the way you look at and treat women forever! Write me if you have any questions. Good luck!
2006-09-07 22:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by Don Ricardo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a conversation just as you would with anyone: your family, a teacher, a friend, etc. Read the newspapers, books and magazines so you will have some topics to discuss. You might want to read How to win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. It has helped thousands and is available at any public library.
2006-09-07 22:42:19 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm just be yourselfe dont talk about boring stuff of course find someone get to know them and ask them to dinner or something dont go somewhere messy like say a lobster restaurant and be nice and sweet
2006-09-07 22:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't be too nervous. if a girl likes you, she'll be nervous too, just remember that. be truthful, tell stuff about you. I'm not sure how it is with all girls, but i don't like guys who only talk about memory's and stuff like that all the time, you learn what they've done, but you barely learn something about the person. if you're boring them, they'll just simply change the subject. be somewhat witty, and be a gentleman. if you really like the girl, and she likes you back, everything will happen the way it should be, then you'll laugh one day for remembering how nervous you were at first.
2006-09-07 22:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by lukkyaquagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk about anything....find something that you both are into and what she is into. Dont always talk about yourself... but be open enough to share yourself with her. Have fun... relax... laugh and smile alot.... you have to enjoy yourself and be happy with yourself and a chick knows that you have that confidence when you talk to her. Dont worry if you bore someone or not. As long as you are not continually talking about yourself or the weather you are ok.
2006-09-07 22:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man
if we really knew that then the world would be a different place
I have been studying women these many years, and they remain a mystery
however, the best you can do is follow the general rules for any kind of interaction
be positive, be complimentary, be genuinely interested in them and show it by listening, then smile and hope
good luck my man
2006-09-07 22:41:51 · answer #8 · answered by enginerd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out for a coffee and talk as you would with a friend.
Remember there is one person out there .
You will socialise with many but eventually she will come along and you will know.
In the meantime just enjoy the friendship.
Take care!
2006-09-07 22:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
many women like to bowl, ski, snowboard, hiking, going to the beach, biking fishing, camping...and a number of other sports and hobbies that you may have. Find a common interest and go with that.
Lots of Luck, Laurie ;-)
2006-09-07 22:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by LVieau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude number one thing is confidence. Ladies can sense it. You have to learn to like yourself. Then talking to women is like anything else. You say hi, introduce yourself. Ask their name, small talk like what you do and take an interest in her. Develope some listening skills, they are crucial. Women like to get attention from guys as much as guys like women. So just be nice, listen and be ready to get turned down. (it happens, so what?)
2006-09-07 22:39:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋