2006-09-07 15:37:29 · 34 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I wouldn't because I wouldn't want some one do that to me. I also wouldn't do it to his wife...
2006-09-07 15:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy but I can tell you from experience that it is not a good idea. I did that with an ex girl friend who all we had in common was sex. I got to thinking, what if she got pregnant and became dependant on me. We would have to deal with each other for 18 years and out of the bedroom we are not so nice to each other. So I quickly stopped that mess. I don't know your situation but if you are able to get pregnant, or get caught, think about the conscequences. My answer is no.
2006-09-07 15:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by j56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 rules I have never broke in my life
After my ex husband I learned u can never go back n if u try its gonna hurt 10 times worse than it did the first time
second never ever ever sleep with a married person unless u r the one married 2 them. its wrong on so many levels but the biggest being that there is no future in it n if there is its u being in the shoes of the person who was cheated on.
remember if someone is willing 2 cheat on there spouse they will eventually cheat on u.
good luck n hun move on u do not need this jerk in ur life he cannot have many morals if he is willing 2 break his marriage vows.
2006-09-07 15:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I hope your not seriously thinking about that because you don't want to be the source of breaking up an "happy home." Of course it's not an "happy home" if he's thinking about cheating on his wife with you! In any event you don't need to have sex with someone elses man, he's leftovers. Think of it this way....
If someone had a plate of food and they picked and slopped over it and then offered you some would you take it? No, right? Because they should have offered you some before they picked and slopped over it. You get my point? If you have any womanly class, respect and upscale about your self then you would not settle for another woman's leftovers in action.
2006-09-07 15:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by StormyRain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,I've done this...and I can't say I'm proud of it. I regret it for a number of different reasons. We had JUST broken up when i found out he had been w/his ex while we were together,planning a WEDDING! All the while,he had asked ME to marry him as well. When I found out I dumped him,but was still crazy about the jerk,so when we hungout one night it happened...after that I cut him out of my life.Men can be destructing,but ultimately it's up to you. Good luck!
2006-09-07 15:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by *Juicy Princess* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, remember he's an ex for a reason. second, dont do it. why hurt his wife and family? it's not worth it. and the saying goes, what goes around comes around. you wouldnt want you're husband sleeping with his ex one day right? besides, there's a good chance it'll be an icky mess...
2006-09-07 15:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by brknarrow23 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn´t, first of all I don´t think you are councious of your value as a person and neither is him. And secondly he is married and being the third woman sucks, remember that things that start badly end up badly. You deserve better you just need to see it!!
2006-09-07 15:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO...its very obvious...why do u wanna do it in the first place?
You are doing something that is morally wrong, its not good for you neither is it fair for the wife. If he is the one that request for it... he is definitely out to cheat u and is a jerk...
if you are the one that wanted it, THINK!!! is it worth it, always weigh the consequences..
2006-09-07 15:45:15 · answer #8 · answered by seira0328 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask you already know the answer. You don't know what his wife may do to you if she finds out about it. Don't do it. Keep your self-respect. He had his chance with you and obviously it didn't work out or the two of you would be together now.
If it were you would you want to be with a cheater?
2006-09-07 15:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO
No way. He has committed himself to another woman and promised to be true to her. Why would you want to contribute to his being unfaithful to her? Unless you don't have any morals or convictions.
How about if you were married, would you mind if your husband had sex with his X girlfriend?
NO NO NO NO NO NO Don't even think about it!
2006-09-07 15:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. Participating in an affair (or someone cheating) is almost as bad as being the one who's cheating. In other words, it'd be really $hitty of you to have sex with him even though he's the one that's technically cheating.
2006-09-07 15:39:36 · answer #11 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋