irony........?

Question

There is one thing I hate.Women.The first woman that I hated was my mother.She walked out on us when I was 5.We never heard from her agin.The second woman was my aunt she left my uncle broke while she went with another man.I learned from experience to never trust women.They are "things" the day my mother left us was the day I vowed to have revenge.I was going to show her what she missed out by becoming a success.Now almost in University I have no problems with women to me they were tools just for using and they didn't last long I had so many girlfriends that I don't even remenber most of them.I used on whim.But lately
I met a woman "Danielle"and it frightens me at times how weak I feel when I'm around her.It makes feel weak and strong at the same time.What's wrong with me?

Answer 1

I'll tell you what's wrong. You're one bad relationship from becoming a serial killer

Answer 2

You are growing up...you are figuring out that perhaps, since you were five, maybe you don't know the whole story about why your mother left. Perhaps your uncle was a ******* and it was just as much his fault they were broke as hers and maybe your aunt just wanted to squeeze a little happiness out of life. Maybe you are figuring out that relationships are a two way street and its very, very rare that there is only one person to blame when things go wrong....there are two sides to every story and you sound as though you only have one side of both of the stories you talked about. Perhaps you are maturing enough to realize that even if your mother was just a bad person or just couldn't handle being a mom (its a really hard job) it doesn't make all women bad people. Living for revenge is pretty twisted, being driven by hatred is so sad and the saddest part is those things don't hurt anyone but you! There is so much more out there. Maybe Danielle will teach you something about those. Have an open mind. Good luck...you'll figure it all out!

Answer 3

Look, I can see why you're hurting. But it sounds like this "Danielle" is possibly someone you can trust. Get to know her. If it is the right thing to do, let her into your heart. What you're feeling is love...straight from within. Follow it and try to overcome your hatred for women. I swear on my life that not all women are like your mom and aunt.

I would also recommend venting your feelings with a counselor. They really can help!

Answer 4

A lot is wrong, you need therapy. You can't hate a group of people for certain one's actions. So your mom and aunt were not good people, that doesn't make all women evil. Give this girl a chance and explain your issue.

Answer 5

Ok to answer your question I'll have ignore your view on my gender. Look your in love. It's that plain and simple. Someone has finally broken through that layer of hate for women and you really care for her. Oh and not all women are evil.

Answer 6

Oh, I think there is plenty wrong with you. You need to sort out some issues before you are ready for any female company.

Answer 7

You just like her!

Give her a chance. She's not your mom, you know, or your aunt. She could turn out to be very different.

Just don't use her like the rest of them. Treat her well.

Answer 8

get therapy you future raplst a$$hole... aint the worlds fault your blood line is a bunch of sluts... leave ""Danielle"" alone... go to therapy... get over your mom and aunt and find a girl a respect her... treat her the best humanly possible...

Answer 9

is it a possibility that maybe just maybe your really starting to like or maybe even love her?? ;)

Answer 10

ohhh... Oooooo...... someones bitten by the love bug.