dating advice for poor me?

Question

just recently, i noticed a girl. she looked cute.she is a bookworm. she has a good personality and thats why i like her. we hung out but it was boring. she and i have nothing in common in that she like the things that i don't. i like her because she's cofident in the way she looks and how she acts. should i give it another go and whut shoulde we do. when should i tell her that i like her and want her to be mai gf. this is not a crush so think of it this way. by doing whut things should i do to make her like me back. i need help and fast.

Answer 1

One of the Most Powerful Seduction Tools
Apacheindian

I think one of the most important factors when seducing any woman is HUMOR. It is, in my opinion, one of the most powerful tools that any man can use when chasing the woman of his dreams.
It injects levity into any tense situation and also gives a man courage when communicating with his 'squeeze.' I'm not talking about the sad, macho, chauvinistic humor which a lot of women find a turn-off, but the kind of humor which is off-the-cuff and innate to YOU. It doesn't have to have the cleverness of GROUCHO MARX or the high rate of seemingly casual one-liners of CHEERS.
What humor does when used properly is two-fold: firstly, it helps to break down barriers between individuals, namely men and women. How many times can you recall when you became fast friends with a guy when he made you laugh? All through your life I'm sure! A funny man with a good sense of humor is always more attractive than a creep who's always too intense with the object of his affections.
Secondly, your sense of humor is a measure of your INTELLIGENCE. It's a well-known fact that some of the funniest comedians and gag-writers have high IQs. A lot of them went to college and got degrees before going into the entertainment business. Now I'm not saying that to be funny you have to have first class honors in Medicine, or any great education. But by using humor correctly, this shows a woman far more about yourself as well as giving her a positive view of your personality. If your pursuit of her fails, in my view her memory of you will be far more positive. Rather than her thinking 'what a loser you are!', she's more likely to think: 'that guy, what a laugh he was!' Hence when she meets you again, she'll warm to you rather than run from you!
So, guys, develop your sense of humor. Go and watch funny movies. Go and see stand up comedians and observe their manner and wit. There is nothing more seductive and sexy than a man with a sense of humor!

Answer 2

Give it a couple more tries, man. It it doesn't work out, then say to hell with it. Seriously, you gotta be yourself, though! The real you will eventually come out in the long run, so don't be fake. Unless you just want to f*ck her, then tell her what she wants to hear. Oh, and you really can't make her like you. Maybe you should try and be a little more flirty next time. If she touches you a lot, laughs more than she should at your jokes, or crosses her legs in your direction, then in, dude.

Answer 3

eMy wife and I are completely opposite in absolutely everything. We have nothing in common except each other. As we prepare to celebrate our 30'th anniversary I would say that she is my balance and I am hers. Everything we share challenges our skills in debate and compromise and there is never competition since we don't like the same things. I can have all the pancakes and she can have all the fruit at breakfast. It works out really well so go for it!

Answer 4

Keep talking with her. Make small talk. If it is that much of a chore to small talk with her then what is going to happen if you went out on a date. AWKWARD! Just because you are attracted to her physically does not mean you are going to make a good couple. Try talking to her again and try to find some common ground. Get her talking and listen to her really closely. Have some follow up questions.

Answer 5

i know this is hard, but take it slow. Maybe ask her what books she likes, or find out from her friends what she likes to read or other things she likes to do. Maybe read a similar or the same book so you have that to talk about at first. Or learn about something she enjoys doing. If you really like her, tell her. You cant make her like you back though. Just be yourself. Let her get to know you, and if she is Ms. Right, she'll like you for who you are. :) Good luck!

Answer 6

A bookworm may have a slight problem with someone that can't spell or write a correct sentence. If English is your native language.... you've got a problem.

Having said that..... Ask her out (dinner, movie, museum, sport event, coffee etc). The worst she can say is no. You may learn and grow together!

Answer 7

trust me first dates tell u almost nothing. u have to think about it, its a first date ur both probably nervous, right? things are bound not to run smoothly. but its a good thing when u notice someones good qualities at the get go. if you bring out those best qualities in her, u will most likely find that connection u crave.

Answer 8

Dont try to be like her. But do something together that she likes doing. Then do stuff you like doing. It will be boring if you too have too much in common soo this could be good you know.
hope everything works out with her.

Answer 9

as for hanging out being boring and you not sharing any interests, it was probably boring because you were both nervous and felt awkward, and sometimes opposites attract. you should get to know her a little better and see if you still like her, and if you do, ask her out. shell probably go for it if you guys have developed a good friendship and you have fun together. good luck! =]

Answer 10

Learn more about her and her interests. If you don't have anything in common you might not be right for each other. But just try to get to know her better before asking her to be your girlfriend.