Do white women try to stay skinny because they usally dont gain weight in the right places?

Question

It seems like women dont realize that curves are what attracts men. I was told that some women (mostly white and asian women) dont distribute fat to places that are considered desirable so they feel its better to have no curves at all than bad curves (big bellies). black women seem to be the only ones who figured out that having a butt, hips, thighs and breasts is sexy. then again they usually have no problem distributing fat to the right places

Answer 1

You don't want people to discriminate against you, then you come up with these ignorant, discriminatory, stupid questions.
Of course women can't "grow curves in the right places" you caveman! But women of all ethnic backgrounds gain weight in different places, based on genetics, not race. Besides, most black women in America are mixed with English, Irish, Polish, etc.
White women don't "only get big bellies" unless they are having liver or kidney failure.
Before you generalize people, pig, you should open your eyes and look at the world areound you.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Quit trying to make women feel bad about their bodies. You apparently don't know much about women either.

Not all Black women's fat is distributed in what you consider "the right places". All womens bodies are different. Plenty of Black women don't feel sexy anymore because the whole world now expects them to have huge butts when they just don't.

Why are you worried about how White or Asian women feel about their bodies? It's the same way that healthy Black women were made to feel fat for years, and Black girls were made to feel bad about themselves because they didn't fit an ideal in this society they just weren't built for it - that skinny waif look.

About ten years ago when the waif look was at it's peak, Essence magazine published a great article on how anorexia and other eating disorders were starting to creep up on Black girls, when historically that hadn't generally been the case. All because the pressure to be skinny was getting to them. I'm glad things have turned around.

That said, just because a lot of White or Asian women don't have big behinds, it doesn't mean that they don't have any curves. Don't tell me you've never seen a big-tittied White or Asian woman? Or a big-thighed White girl who's confident about her body and isn't starving herself? It would be much healthier for White women if more of them stopped pressuring themselves to be stick skinny, and realized that some meat on their bones in not only healthy, but sexy as well.

And there's a difference between being overwieght and being voluptuous/thick. You're right about this though - what White women might consider fat, is considered healthy and voluptuous in the Black community, which is a much healthier attitude and it's the truth.

Answer 4

That's true. But, what some women don't realize that there is a difference between fat curves, and skinny curves. No guy likes a girl with a boys' figure; but you can be skinny and still have a sexy shape. I'm Moroccan, and I think that being skinny with having NICE curves is totally sexy in everyway.

Answer 5

My fat contributes to the right places. I'm glad I don't have to starve myself to trick myself into thinking I look good. Fat is not HOT, but yes those extra curves put an umph in your physique! The exercise bring the firmness. It's true, you can't just be a stick. Having curves is great but just around the buttocks, thighs and boob area.... any place else wouldn't really be attractive from my veiw either. : )

Answer 6

I was really skinny and I liked it. But then I gained a little weight, just a little. And I love it. I fill out tops better and the jeans oh the jeans.

My husband is white and he says he likes the weight I have put on and says I look better then before. So he and I both are enjoying it.

I figure people should just be happy with whatever they have.

Answer 7

umm... see put like this when you lose weight sometimes you dont get a shape im not white so i wouldnt know but if you gain that weight it ends up in the wrong places and its harder to lose so it depnds on your family genes i guess

Answer 8

The reason any intelligent human being keeps a check on their weight is for health reasons. But do kid yourself otherwise if you like.

Answer 9

looking good boosts a girl's self esteem. No one wants to be fat and hide in a corner they want to be noticed for their looks and their hard work that got them that way.

Answer 10

i know alot of fat white woman , and i'm one of em by the way and mine is in the right places so i don't knwo why you'd even ask that dumb ****