there's this girl i only know since school started a few days ago...we have some classes together and sometimes we make eye contact and she smiles and in some classes we sit together and we seem to get along fine....i'm not sure does it seem she likes me?
2006-09-07 15:11:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her. usually we are waiting for u guys to ask us. sometimes you take too long so dont waste time and just ask her. dont be like ...... ummm do u like, like me? i hope u already new not to do that. but just be like hey i kinda like you, is it mutual? then if she says yes ask her out. if she says no then say okay then thats cool. good luck
2006-09-07 15:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Art of Flattery
Apacheindian
I heard a saying when I was in my early twenties that said:
A Man falls in love through his eyes.
A Woman falls in love through her ears.
Upon hearing that I started giving small compliments to different women that I worked with. Most of the reactions were a big smile, a look of surprise, and a blush.
I noticed that these ladies really warmed up to me the next time they saw me. As time went on and I became more confident, I started with the really Beautiful women. You know, the kind that turn all the guys' heads, and the other women hate.
At first I just flat out told them they were pretty. I got a reaction like I just told them a tired old joke. I wondered what I did wrong. Then one day I stumbled upon a technique that worked for me.
I went to tell this secretary about a repair that was going to be late and I said, "Terry?" (yes) "I just wanted to let you know,,,,,,,,,,,,, How beautiful you are!" I wasn't even planning on giving a compliment till I paused. This completely caught her off guard, but she lit up with a big smile and looked at me like I was Tom Cruise.
Since then I noticed that the best compliments are given off guard, when these women least expect it. And after 20 years of talking to different women, learning what most of them like to hear, along with some trial and error, I'm willing to share some of the "Dos" and "Don'ts" on The Art of Flattery
- DO give sincere compliments.
- DO compliment above the neckline. (This includes her mind.)
- DO surprise her with warm compliments.
- DO tell her she's lost weight even if she hasn't.
- DO watch for positive reactions. (Her eyes widen, she smiles, she gives a big THANK YOU!)
- DON'T overdo it. Compliment every now and then.
- DON'T just compliment her looks, especially if she's beautiful. Tell her how smart she is.
These are just some basics that have worked very well for me. I am not a good-looking guy and I don't have to beat the ladies off with a stick. But I have had some beautiful women flirt with me after some flattering comments. Just be patient because there are ways to make a beautiful woman feel good about herself, and in turn she will feel good about you.
2006-09-07 15:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably admires you, but why don't you make the moves to find out? Smile back at her, flirt sometime, ask for her phone number. Become friends first, and see how things go.
2006-09-07 15:13:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be. but this sounds like any normal reaction to a friend. smiling and being friendly. it doesn't neccesarily mean that she likes you, but its also very possible, she obviously doesn't abhor you. the question is, do you like her? if so you might want to try and see if it would work. but ask her if she really wants to get into a relationship. and be sure you want to, too.
2006-09-07 15:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by 4theband 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are naturally nice most esp when they feel comfortable and see the other person good, she likes you maybe as a friend as of what you've said but i can't really tell up to what degree like if she even has attraction to you
2006-09-07 15:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by leelee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know her better before you date her...
people put on their "good" side when they date... and you won't get to know the real her...
but if she's smiling at you and making eye contact... that is definently a good sign.
2006-09-07 15:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by Kit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby boy........if she smiles at you - she likes you. She's just waiting for you to make the first move. (Girls are taught that even though you like a boy, you have to wait for him to make the first move)
Move on and good luck!
2006-09-07 15:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by my2cents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt wit her a little..and then maybe ask her out to the movies or sum place like that.I think it's how she stares at u....but u gotta get to know her first.what if she comes out to b a real B****.......and try talking to her friends...find out sum stuff
2006-09-07 15:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might like you. Just keep being yourself and ask her out on a casual date.
2006-09-07 15:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by Natalie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she does but take ur time and relax and get to know her first b4 jumping into anything...
Good Luck!!!!
2006-09-07 15:13:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋