Ok...I went to high school with this girl. She doesn't remember me, and now goes to college down the street from me. I contacted her online, because I want to get to know her, and we've been sending messages back and forth about school school and general stuff. She knows from the first messege I am interested in her. The duration between responses has shortened a lot over the past couple of days. I got two messeges from her today talking about when classes start for me. Her last messege was very short, and didn't end with a question like all the others, but just an answer to my last question i asked her.
OKAY....here's the question for you.... Should I wait to send her another messege?...wait til she's on aim or something???
I don't want to appear obsessed with her..or that I live online and have no life. Should I take things slower?
2006-09-07 14:45:38 · 7 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go ahead and message her. just because there's no question doesn't mean she doesn't want a response. maybe you could shoot her a little "i know your probably stressed with classes starting and came across this joke and though it'd make you laugh...." and send her a cute, clean joke. it would show you are considerate and that you are thinking of her, but not being obessed or creepy or something. i bet you'd get a nice response from her.
2006-09-07 14:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till she's on AIM and talks to you first - if she isn't inviting a response, she doesn't want one and giving her a response will just lead to her backing off a little more each time.
I didn't use this trick for years but as soon as I took a step back, I suddenly had 9 different guys begging to take me out on dates. Like a miracle!
2006-09-07 21:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jaq 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
College takes up a lot of time. There is much more homework involved. If she takes time out to respond, then feel lucky. She probably does not have time to write a dissertation on your last letter.
Write short notes that don't take up her time. Write often enough so she knows you think of her occasionally. Only write notes that require more of an answer on weekends when there is no class.
2006-09-07 21:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha 1st one to answer! lol anyways dont forget about it! cuz maybe shes kind of busy or something..but wait about....2 days then come out of nowhere and send her a LITTLE message saying " how was school?" or something that shows u want to talk to her but ur not gonna throw urself at her...dont play her way play YOUR way. lol
2006-09-07 21:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by Woman. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
but u r obbessed with her woo her tell her ur head over heel with her shes juz playing hard to get she want to drive u to your end an you finally confessed that u love her thats the problem about men they always to coward
2006-09-07 21:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know where she is go talk to her
2006-09-07 21:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by butterfly girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe, you don't want to look desperate
2006-09-07 21:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋