I am an 18 year old male but I seem to have a crush on a 35 year old man who is married. I have a feeling that he likes me also, but he cannot tell me. He takes me to his home, we eat but never do anything. I always stare at his crotch, and he has seen me once watching the bulge on his frontage. I want to have sex with him but I do not know how to tell him. I know he likes me to.
2006-09-07 14:40:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anasa T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been there more than once! I hate to tell you this, but you should consider him off the market. He is married. Do not entice him to break his vows to satisfy your urges. If he ever makes a pass at you tell him you do not want to come between him and his wife.
Unrequited lust sucks, doesn't it? Trust me, you'll be a better a person for it.
2006-09-08 02:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds obvious that he likes you a lot. Keep in mind that this is a married man if you decide to take this further. Say you do something with him and fall for him. Chances are he will not leave his wife. But, if you still think you want to pursue him, this is what I would do. I would casually get close to him when you feel the time is right and kind of touch his butt, and if he does not do anything, then get a little more bold and go for the feel in the front. If he likes you, he is probably waiting for you to make the first move. Good luck!!!!
2006-09-07 21:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by Ricky W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have more than an identity crisis. You have a morality crisis.
It's okay to be a little lustful or infactuated with someone, a harmless fantasy is okay as long as you would never act out those things, but that's WHERE IT HAS TO STAY!!
If you go down that path, you can't come back. You'll destroy a family and another life just for your sexual selfish attitude. Grow up!!
2006-09-07 14:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by Lady_Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the bulge on his frontage??? now thats just funny as hell. where are you from? honestly? that is ironic though because i always wanted to know why guys looked at my frontage...just playing.. but in all honesty just tell him how you feel, he must like you if he is 35 and taking you to eat and hanging out w/ you. what in the hell does ANY 35 year old man have in common w/ an 18 year old unless they are father and son? nada.... nothing......zero....ZILTCH.......
2006-09-07 14:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by nicole t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all the issues in this world...this is what you ask about? He's married...leave him alone. Don't start anything. If he starts something he needs to take responsibility for his actions and you have to do what you think is right.... I have a feeling you'll let him if he starts something but you have to live with it just as much as he does.
If he is bisexual or gay he needs to honest with himself and especially his wife...... don't you think?
2006-09-07 14:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is married. Like it or not it is still cheating to have sex with someone other than your partner.
2006-09-07 14:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find a single guy to sleep with. It will be much less complicated.
2006-09-07 14:45:50 · answer #7 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yuck
2006-09-07 14:44:55 · answer #8 · answered by angielynn219 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋