I have a few questions...?

Question

#1. I have this guy friend that i met this summer, he lives 3 1/2 hours away from eachother...im a junior in highschool (16) and hes a freshman in college (18)....untill this summer I thought that alot of guys in my school were attractive but...since i met him i dont htink so any more. We both discussed that we really like eachother and we want to be more than just friends but the fact that we live 3 1/2 hours away sucks...what do you think we should do? (dont say get over it and move on b/c he will too...i need advice on what to do)

#2 this other guy that lives around here, i've kinda liked since last year, but nothing will ever happen between us, right now we are kinda fwb until one of us starts dating someone. I guess my question is do you think i'm too young to have sex...I think your going to say yes...but honestly thats not what i want to hear...I dont know....Im kind of ranting b/c ive been thinking of everything lately.

#3 and why are blowjobs called that,u suck rigt?

Answer 1

#1 Call / chat / visit week ends

#2 no (use protection)

#3

This term, now widespread in English-speaking countries, spread from the USA in the 1960s. A puzzling misnomer to many, to blow in this context is probably a euphemism for ejaculate, a usage occasionally recorded in the 1950s. This may itself be influenced by the there she blows of whaling cliche. An alternative and equally plausible derivation of ******** is from the black jazz musicians hip talk expression blow meaning play (an instrument). This term probably caught on in Britain and Australia simply because there was no well-known alternative in existence

Answer 2

#1 - If you and this guy like each other, you'll be able to make it work out. HOWEVER, he is a freshman in college and that's a very experimental time for people. I would say try to make it work out for a while and then in the mean-while you may find that you will get a crush on someone else or start to like someone much closer.

#2 - as for the fwb, that's a very risky thing. I had one at 16 and it didn't end well. We started out the same as you and your friend. For the sake of your sanity, I would say sex at 16 is too young.

#3 - Blowjobs consist of sucking, lighty blowing, kisses, touching.. etc.

Answer 3

1. 3 1/2 hours away is far... If you're going to keep up the relationship - have him do most of the driving your way. If he expects you to drive to him all the time - he is not worth it! Get away from that guy asap.
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2. I don't know if you are too young. But I will say this - I first started dating and having sex at 17 - I had a few boyfriends - and they were all a waste of time until I was much older... So, I don't know if it's really worth it. But I also don't promote 'wait till your married' because you will be so focused on sex you might not think strait. Best to try to wait at least until you find someone you are mutually in love with and then it will be much more specail and meaningful.

3. Yes, you suck....lol

Answer 4

here we go.
1. the major problem you have here is that you are going to be having a long distance relationship which is never ideal because you will need to spend any weekend you can travelling (do you both have a car?) and this takes alot of love and commitment to maintain. also you need to realise that he is starting college which means he will be extremely busy with study, parties and girls and you will need to be extremely secure in your self and the relationship in order for this to work because temptation is everywhere (especially in college). i think it would be a good idea if you guys weren't an item but when you meet up then relationship things can happen and when you aren't physically together you can be friends and get to know each other. this will put less pressure on you both and then you can enjoy school and he can enjoy college without feeling guilty or resentful.
2. i think that your friend is your back up partner and visa versa. you guys are friends who are attracted to each other but either you don't want to be with him or you don't want to ruin the friendship. this doesn't mean however that you want each other to find someone else because you are both comfortable with the situation and don't want each other to find someone else who will ruin or change your bond. you need to be emotionally ready for sex whether that be 16 or 18 or 30 it is an individual choice. however i think you should wait until you are in a commited and loving relationship. it's much better then.
3. it's called a ******** because the guy blows and yes you do suck.
hope the essay helps :) good luck.

Answer 5

#1 i think you guys asould talk on the phone with him more and pays some visits because gas prices are way too high to be driving for three almost four hours to some ones house every day and another think if it is true love nothing will get in between u guys
#2 that could be the biggest mistake in your life, what if u get pregnet and he leaves u dont ever trust any man if he did not put a ring on ur finger. hold your temptation that could be the best thing that u ever done for your self and pratice absinace.
#3 to be honest i really dont know

Answer 6

If a train leaves NY going North traveling at 25 miles an hour and an airplane leaves NY going South at 125 miles an hour and an egg is boiling in the kettle at 210degrees and the moon sets as the sun rises, will these questions get any more rediculous?

Answer 7

1. He is 18 and you are 16...that means to have anything but a platonic friendship with him could put him in a whole lot of trouble.

2. I suppose that fwb means friends with benefits...and yes, I do know what that means. Yes you are too young to have sex. Physicially you are able to have sex, but emotionally you are not ready. Just reading your questions tells me that.

2. Does it matter why they are called BJ's? That is just crass and lacks a lot of class. And there will come a day when you will want to be considered a classy lady. I promise you that.

Answer 8

#1... Long distance relationships are difficult at best... stay in contcat, if it's meant to be it will be... but don't push. Be patient.

#2... Sex is something you have to make you're own personal decision. Do it for the right reasons...not the wrong. and as long as you are interested in the college boy you mentioned, why would you ever consider sex with the local boy... I say until you know who the love of your life truly is....stay a virgin.

#3 Whatever you do...don't blow... As a matter of fact don't do anything... until you're in love.... and at your age.... it's likely you're not.

Answer 9

Like the vast majority of us, you KNOW the answers to all your questions but don't have the courage to live right. It is not enough to learn from the mistakes of others. You must make yours.
I only ask that you take all the precautions you can so that, hopefully, when you get old enough you'll be able to think: "how could I have been so silly?" "Thank GOD He's given me another chance!"

Answer 10

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