I love my boyfriend A LOT, and I know were most likely going to have sex very soon, but im afraid to show him my body, im afraid he'll think im fat or something..... he's told me how much he loves me inside and out, but, im still afraid.
2006-09-07 14:29:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you aren't ready if you're still unsure of yourself :/
If you really are ready keep in mind that guys love a confident girl and that can make up for any flaws :)
Be careful! Love yourself!
2006-09-07 14:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone suffers some kind of body insecurity. You are definitely not alone.
How do you know HE is not uptight about his body also?
Ask him....bet you will be surprised at the answer, and it will really open up a line of communication which may help calm your fears.
2006-09-07 14:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by brian k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very normal... I think we all go through it no matter what kind of body we have. Turn the lights out, light some candles, or even keep your shirt on if you want.. there are lots of tricks.
2006-09-07 14:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by angielynn219 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes only going to care about whats in between your legs
2006-09-07 14:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then u are not ready. there is a lack of trust between you and you should wait until you are positive about the situation
2006-09-07 14:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by Firefly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is trying to get in your pants, I understand why you are arfraid and God usually makes us that for a reason. Usually there is fear for a reason, if you are scared then explain to him that if he loves you like he says he does than he can handle not having sex.
2006-09-07 14:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid of love.
2006-09-07 15:03:07 · answer #7 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about it. Just go with the flow. =D
2006-09-07 14:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by sharkie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be scared if hes as cool as u say hes not going to care!
2006-09-07 14:32:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay --talk to him about it and about your insecurities. Buy a pretty nighty that covers your booty and makes you feel sexy!!
2006-09-07 14:31:52 · answer #10 · answered by jiffypop88 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋