Ive known this girl for a year, she is drop dead gorgeous, very confident and about the same age. I am married 29 and going through a trial seperation from my wife. Last wk went out for a casual sales lunch with her and one thing led to another and we kissed on the ride back, I got to second base, we would have gone farther but I made her 2 hours late for her next meeting. Afterwards she wanted to see me again (to close the deal...) because she was in town for another day, I got freaked out because I have literaly only been single for a week. She's single. She has gone back down to LA and I am in SF, she is very non chalant about hooking up but says she wants to schedule a time when we can be in the same city at the same time. cant get her off my mind. But the wierd thing is that when we were in the car together she was extremely uninhibited and ready to go at all costs. But when I talk to her now she is very buisness like and nonchallant but still very interested, what does this mean
2006-09-07 14:12:19 · 15 answers · asked by garciaamd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means that your wife is damn lucky that you're gone. One week of being separated is a slap in her face. She's probably waiting with bated breath for you to "miss her" and all you can talk about is this new possible f*ck!
You're being played by the saleswoman. She is looking to settle down now! Probably feels that old biological clock ticking. She'll be "accidentally" pregnant in no time.
Good Luck Monsieur de Sade!
2006-09-07 14:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She reminds me of a business man that has a girl in every city. She is a player in every sense of the word. You are in a vulnerable place right now and it sounds like this woMAN could cause a lot of trouble in your life.
Take time to mourn your marriage and your personal loss. Take time to heal and tend to yourself, becoming a better person from all this recent separation in your life. Remember that you are only separated, not divorced.
Don't make more trouble for yourself with a trivial, meaningless fling.
Best to you and your family.
2006-09-08 10:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by NONAME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i'd say she sounds pretty easy and that office romances don't tend to work out neither do long distance relationships. i think you should take your trial seperation a little bit more seriously. you are on a "trial" don't do anything that will create conflict or that you will regret. if the trial becomes premanent then i'd consider you totally available. if i met you and knew it was a trial i wouldn't attempt a relationship with you because my odds of it being lasting aren't that high. good luck!!
2006-09-07 21:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked so I'm going to tell you.
This is trouble with a capital T. Wait until you have decided what to do with your marriage. Either get out of the marriage....ALL the way. Or work on getting back into the marriage. But DON'T, I repeat, DON'T bring a third party into this mix or you will regret it.
2006-09-07 21:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, it means that you are committing an adultery, remember you are separated, not divorced. Second, if she's that eager to get with you, she's probably that way with a lot of other guys, think twice; AIDS is on the rise. I say run the other way my friend, RUN.
2006-09-07 21:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by Me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's probably a little gun shy because of your situation! She is testing the waters to see exactly where your head is!!! If you really want advice..........Well do you?.............LOL!!!.....Ok , If you don't want your life to become a confusing mess very fast, FINISH one relationship before starting another! Just threw that in for free! LOL!
Good Luck, I hope it all works out for the best!!!!!!!
2006-09-07 21:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by taborfamily67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you're still married and on the rebound...And that Girl is horny and doesn't have real feelings for you she just wants a quick lay....if she's that way with you then she's that way with other men as well,remember you're not only sleeping with her but everyone she has slept with in the past...........have you heard of AIDS?????
2006-09-07 21:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your passion is dying down umm for me i think to keep it up is sex or move in with her be like a teenager and woo her till she agrees to marry you but please if you get divorced another time i think its not love it means you are a pervert you wanna find new bodies to explore and its definitely not love so if you like her for her body and sex i think you should not marry bring her in the car and talk tell her what you feel but at thin level its no use get a new galfriend but as i said wanting to marry a girl its for love.
2006-09-07 21:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SF to LA is not a very long drive..only about 8 hrs or so...so drive to her
2006-09-07 21:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you heated her up...but when she is not with you she has cooled down...meet her again i guarantee the sparks will fly..Good Luck
2006-09-07 21:15:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋