There are two guys that I know from school, they both love me, and I love them back. One is only 17, hates country music, and can only provide till death do us part. The other is my age (20), likes country music, and can provide for time and enternity. I don't know who to choose! Can anyone help me?
2006-09-07 14:08:35 · 18 answers · asked by sailorjupiter172003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
At some point, one of them will bail out.
2006-09-07 14:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date them both. Who says you have to get a serious one-person relationship at age 20? People should wait for things like marriage until age 35, or older!
Personally, I would pick the no-country-music guy. Only because I cannot stand country music. And time and eternity is an awful long time.
2006-09-07 14:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just a few little things I learned in life. Once a cheater always a cheater. For the one thing wrong you do to another it comes back 3 fold against you. What gos around comes around. How would you feel if your BF said I think I love another. It would be hurtful towards you right. You have to stay away from the guy you are not dating but are lusting after. Sooner or latter you will have a fight with your BF and sleep with the other. The writings on the wall up to you. Always do the right thing. Be the good person because there so many bad in this world.
2016-03-27 02:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds more like an interest than love. Loving someone is when you dont need to think of anyone else. Love is deep and meaningful, it is powerfully present in the absence of words. Don't make a commitment yet, spend more time getting to know them. When you really know a person, when you feel like kindred spirits, then the answer becomes very clear.
2006-09-07 14:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur........I didn't quite understand the "provide for" parts..........
The first one is 17, and you are saying that He can "provide" until death do you part............what does He need to provide for you when you are gone anyway, and/or with the second one (20) ... what is "eternity" to you? (not being disrespectful, just asking)
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just that one likes and the other doesn't when it comes to country music..........
So.......I'm guessing this means you are more compatible with one when it comes to music preference, but you are also thinking of your future..........
Girl...........this is the 21st Century and I say, LOVE THEM BOTH for the time............let your heart choose.......who knows, in time a third person may come into your life that possesses BOTH qualities/abilities.............(??) and you will find THAT person to be your choice.
2006-09-07 14:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by Uwanna Kissimmi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 17-year-old is way too young, but here is my humble advice:
If you are considering this for a life-long relationship, close your eyes and imagine yourself as an old woman. Who is standing beside you?
Oh...and if one of these two makes you laugh all of the time and you feel like you can tell them anything without feeling uncomfortable, that's the one. Hopefully, he's the same one you pictured when you closed your eyes.
2006-09-07 14:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by J B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are kidding right?. Seriously how can we give you an answer on who to choose? It appears that you are looking at what they like and how they can "provide" for you. Since you can't answer your question, you will have to pick the person you love the most.
NOONE can make that decision for you.
2006-09-07 14:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Who me? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey , Your the only one who can make that decision. But think long and hard...you don't want to just jump in and pick the wrong one to find out later you should have went the other way, one person being hurt is better than all three,
2006-09-07 14:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by mj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go with the guy who is ur age...he will beable to protect you and provide the right nesessities for you...you deserve a good guy and thats what the 20 yr old will do for you
2006-09-07 14:12:02 · answer #9 · answered by Confused Lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was this the best you could come up with? This is what I have been telling everyone...ANOTHER MEANINGLESS QUESTION...GOOD BLESS YOU FOR GIVING ME MY 2 POINTS.
Look here, this chick is still in school and is picking who to marry in terms of country music. Yes, I do understand one "claims" he will provide till eternity, however, this kid is still growing pubic hairs in his region...oh give me a break!!!
2006-09-07 15:34:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pray to God for His wisdom to guide you in making a correct decision, then He will bless your holy union and have a blessed family.
For human knowledge is limited, God knowledge is as vast is the universe
I prayed to God asking Him to help me choose a wife. Now I have a beautiful son and a best wife I can ever have.
God bless
2006-09-07 14:11:59 · answer #11 · answered by BaTu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋