well i am dating her and i dont know if her mom is gonna let her go somewhere with me but so far she doesnt really mind that we are dating and i just need ideas on how to change her moms mind and also places to go with my gf and things to do. im 13 she is 14 and all of her older siblings are tryin to pressure us into holding hands and kissing and stuff, im embarassed and im afraid that if i dont do it then she will think i dont like her...please help and give me any advice you can.
2006-09-07 13:56:07 · 15 answers · asked by Curtis W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well she doesnt really like me because me and my freinds made a stupid mistake, got into trouble(we paintballed peoples houses) but i am sorry for what i did, i learned from my mistake, i aint never gonna do it again, its my first and only time gettin in trouble, and u know what i dont care if she likes me or not im a good kid, i learned, i just made a simple mistake in life(who doesnt?!?!) and there is really no reason for her not to like me so u know what...im tired of being a sissy when it comes to my girlfreind im hangin out with her, holding her hand, kissing her, and im askin her to the movies so there...
2006-09-07 14:06:37 · update #1
If you always remember to be a nice guy... polite and respectful of your girlfriend and equally polite and respectful of her mem, you'll do just fine. Take your girlfriend to a movie if mom lets her go... no sneeking around if mom doesn't aprove.
For other places to go and things to do, try:
a donut shop,
a park,
a donut shop at the mall,
a donut shop,
a walk,
a beach,
a visit to your house when your parents are at home,
a donut shop,
a putt, putt golf course,
a really nice donut shop.
Have fun.
((( r u randy? )))
2006-09-07 14:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 23:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all she should tell her siblings to mind thier own business and I do not think her mother doesn't like you it just might think that you guys are really to young to be dating. As for things you guys can do together go rollerstaking,go to the movies .Also d not let her siblings get to you they are just that way because you are younger do not let them preassure you into doing anything you do not want to do. I think as long as you always treat her and her daughter with respect she will likee you.
2006-09-07 14:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things moms are looking for: respect, always refer to her as Mrs and always be back from dates 10 minutes earlier from the original time, be friendly a sincere smile is always a plus, be pleasant around the mom start a conversation and make her mom laugh, ant chance you have offer to help on something she is doing. treat her daughter right, it may sounds like old fashioned ways but it still a plus on parents view about boyfriends, last you are too young sweetie don't stress yourself
2006-09-07 14:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by purelle31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite mom to go to the movies with you. As a matter of fact, if you and your GF stay together for a couple of years you might always invite mom to come along. It might help.
2006-09-07 13:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by Albannach 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit actin like a sissy, and be a man. Tell her to come to the movies with you because you want to be with her. If her mom argues, guess what, she'll argue for you and want to go to the movies even more. forbidden love is an easy in bud.
2006-09-07 13:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by (l)SR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore friends advice. They are trying to get BOTH of you into trouble. Then the MOM will DEFINITELY NOT LIKE YOU.
Find things you can do with your girlfriend and her mom. Suprise! Mom's like to go to the movies too!!
2006-09-07 13:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were my son, you wouldn't be dating anyone at your age. I hope her mother stays strict for her daughter's sake. You might change her mind when you've grown up another two or three years if you've been a decent kid during that time.
2006-09-07 13:59:20 · answer #8 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..... if you want to get on the mom's good side if I were you I would make it to were you invited your gf and her parents over to your house for supper and make them a homemade meal and make conversation that way she can get to know you better so she will like you more.
2006-09-07 13:59:29 · answer #9 · answered by newgirl2491 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man My gf's mom is like that too. I used to be shy about holding hands and kissing too. It took me like 5 months to kiss my gf. Just do it.i'll garantee you'll like it and she will too.
2006-09-07 14:01:59 · answer #10 · answered by Gangsta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋