Why do I always feel like he doesnt really love me?

Question

Ok...let me break it down...
I have a boyfriend of 1 year who recently moved me into his home (rent free) so I could attend school (mind you he paid $1500 towards my tuition and $300 in books) and I guess so we could be together (we were living far apart). Im the type that needs attention like 24/7 from the person I am with (most say because of the home I came from - - I was never told 'I love you' nor had a fam that showed an interested in me). He is also the only friend I have (I havent made friends at my new college yet and with my school and work schedule, finding time to hang out with new friends is going to be hard.).
But, lately Ive been so paranoid that he is cheating or doesnt find me attractive or something anymore. We used to have sex twice a day when I saw him, and now its more like 3 times a week. I tell him how I feel and he says that hes not going to change anything because that not how he is. I dont want him to change, just show me more love and affection.

Help!

Am I trippin and should I just chill? I know I have a smart, humorous and respectful man, but I always feel like Im losing him for some reason. I get scared that hes talking to other chicks on the phone, or on myspace (but he does rely on the public to buy what his business develpos and sells so netowrking is important).

But I feel that my needs are important as well...in a relationship, arent we supposed to come together and compromise?

Oh, please help!

Answer 1

I know a woman's needs... love needs.. :)
You need to chill, girl. The more you push yourself to your man, the more he felt pushed. So far, you've done what you could, you've told him how you feel. Now what you have to do is relax. I don't think he's cheating/ find you not attractive. It's likely that he thinks you're immature/insecure. Go make friends. Really, in the long run, you'll need friends. Guys need space to breath, you can't cramp him with all your love. Less sex doesn't mean he's bored, it means he's in a comfortable zone with you. He doesn't need to have sex all the time to show his love, so you need to think that way too. He loves you, girl. Be confident, feel blessed, happy, fun, and he'll love you even more.

Answer 2

Your needs are important. Find someone else who agrees with that.