I don't want to deal w/this person anymore, but I'm having a hard time making them understand that it's wrong what he's doing to his girlfriend, were not meant to be a couple, and I'm not about to be any man's ''other'' woman.
I've even considered contacting this guys live in girlfriend ( oh yes, I've obtained his girlfriends cell, work number, e-mail address, and I also have there home number) and asking her to ask her boyfriend if he'll leave me alone!!! Help!! He's so clingy!! He pops up at my home unannounced, rides past my house seeing what ever he can see if he can't reach me by phone, or e-mail, I mean he's really on some crazy, stalker like ''ish''!!
2006-09-07 13:24:28 · 7 answers · asked by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would let his girlfriend know..That isnt right for him to do to her either...Make sure you have proof you wouldnt believe some of the girls out there...They believe a guy like you are trying to lie or something.
2006-09-07 13:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tricky situation as it could easily get dangerous. contact your local policestation to make an official complaint and so they know what is going on. contact your family for support even if they live away. contact your local welfare group, as they may have legal people who can advise you. and consider carefully your options before contacting his girlfriend and if you do just send a text message and let someone you trust read it to make sure it is sensible and to the point, without being rude. remember its not her fault, she probably doesn't know he is acting like this and will be pleased to find out. good luck and be careful
2006-09-07 20:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by sunirose2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the police wont be able to do anything so it would be pointless to tell you to go to the police. I think you should go to a phone that can in no way be traced to you call his girlfriend anyway you can and tell her to keep her boyfriend on a tighter leash. If that don't work find a friend that is bigger then him to scare the crap out of him
2006-09-07 20:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, call his girlfriend, go over there and bring some flowers to her and say you had no idea, but once you found out you called it OVER, but he won't stop.
I did that to a boyfriend that tried getting back with me, and I KNEW he was engaged! I went over to meet his fiance and we had coffee and talked about him and his behaviour. She was really cool actually. When he came home, his face was like he saw a dead person. She questioned him and asked if he even wanted to get married. He studdered and sputtered and looked at me! It was pretty classic. Then he came out with "How could you betray me?" when he looked at me...I laughed..."Betray? who's the one who's engaged?" She kicked him out and I never had to hear from him again.
2006-09-07 20:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you think he's dangerous and a threat to your life...so what? Let him drive by...don't answer the phone, block him from your Email...sooooooooo what?! Who cares. You want rid of him - rid of him. He'll move on to cheat on his live-in girlfriend sooner or later with his next "on the side" girl.
I say not to call his girlfriend - it's not up to you to wake her up. She'll wake up on her own, or maybe she just doesn't care...whatever...not your business...your business is YOU.
Ignore the bastardo...he'll move on when he realizes you REALLY don't care...don't notice...don't answer, etc.
2006-09-07 20:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spam his but. so that takes care of the emails.tell him to back off and if that fails let his girl know the deal.she should be able to get his *** in check
2006-09-07 20:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by toni r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl I kno wut ur goin through ugh I had a guy on me that wudn't leave me alone. If need be change ur number, and get a restraining order.
2006-09-07 20:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by Jessy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋