Guys are disgusting Please help?

Question

Theres this guy in my 5th period and he always talks disgusting **** about my sister which annoys me but now he talks about me to his friend so i can like hear, there perverted comments too, i dont know if i should say somthing to him because hes a junior and im only a freshmen or if i should just keep ignoring it any advice please and thankyou

Answer 1

Harrassment or intimidation in the workplace is defined as words,or behaviors that someone would not say/do in front of their mother, wife, or girlfriend,and would not have anyone say/do to their mother, wife, or girlfriend.
This is harassment, too, only at school. Take a microcassette recorder to school with you (put it in your backpack or purse, facing them) and record these guys having their typical "benefit conversations" (conversations meant for you to hear, but to each other rather than to you). Contact your school principal or guidance counselor and play them the tape. Tell them if these guys are not dealt with, you will take your evidence of their harassment to the school board. Make sure you make a copy, or record it onto your computer. You get a mini-audio cable and connect it from the headphone "out" to the "mic in" input in your computer, or a mini-to-standard size left/right audio cable to plug into your stereo to make a copy.
Don't tell anyone else what you are doing. It may be tempting to play it for various individuals, but not only would it be bad karma (and come back to you times three) nobody would ever trust you again.
You have to take steps, and don't let anyone tell you "suck it up" or that you need to grow thicker skin. They just say that because they don't know how, or want to deal with it. I know where you are, and I have been there myself. My only regret was that I tried to ignore it, and the anxiety and stress caused me health problems and dimished performance. I should have had the courage to stand up for myself and do something before it got to that point.
Good luck and take no BS from anyone!

Answer 2

Kat,
2 ways to approach the trash mouth,A)since this is an issue of harassment,1.your parents2.your teacher3.just go right up the line until it stops,OR B)Does this boy like you or your sister and is tiring to get your attention(males are from Mars)and as such may not have the ability to let you know how he feels.(feeling is a Venus thing which females know)
As a general rule,females develop much earlier mentally then their counter parts,so consider the source.It may be a simple case of sticks and stones-on the other hand it may be putting you in a unsafe situation.
Now you have the answers-along with an enormous power,you must make that determination,and then act on it.
Best of luck in school-Shoot for the moon and if you miss-you are among the stars.

Answer 3

There is only so long you can ignore a person before you crack and do something to cause harm to someone. He's obviously doing this to get to you, so ask him nicely to quit. If he doesnt, tell the teacher.

Answer 4

I think he's only doing it to get your attention. Obviously he knows you can hear him, or he wouldn't be talking as loud, for you to hear him. If their comments bother you that much, I think you should say something to him & his friends...I wouldn't wait that long to say anything, only because it may get worse.

Answer 5

Start a rumor that his dick is tiny. Soon He will be the shame of the school. Tell people that a friend of yours told you he has a tiny tiny dick.
Then if that does not work kick him in the dick

Answer 6

The guy is an @ss, either ignore him or tell a teacher...

Answer 7

he is doing it for your attention and you should just ignore him. he is trying to get attention and has no self esteem so he has to try to get negative attention...how pathetic. he will always be a loser..pity him.

Answer 8

IGNORE WHATEVER YOU HEAR! ... let him and his peers get tired of talking about you...