2006-09-07 12:48:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Turn her down gently, she won't be offended...
If anything, she'll probably be comforted to know it's not because of her, it's just that you're attracted to the other gender...
2006-09-07 12:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ AnGeL oF cLaRiTy ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I did, to the guy who expressed an interest in me, was be flattered that he found me attractive and tell him so, and then politely say that I would not be able to reciprocate his feelings for me. It isn't a problem that you are attractive to someone who is gay. You should feel good about it.
2006-09-07 13:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by rowlfe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell her that you aren't attracted to her because you're gay. Tell her that you're flattered, but you'll just have to remain on the platonic level. If she doesn't understand that, then she'll just have to get over it. If she tries to seduce you into "changing over" to being strait, you may have to set harder boundaries.
2006-09-07 12:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, im not gay, but i would keep my mouth shut, cause sometimes the ugliest girl you can think of will probably turns to a really good looking girl.
2006-09-07 12:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by Diaz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Would say to her that I am not interested and that I am not a gay
2006-09-07 12:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you are gay theres no reason why you can't be freinds, tell her nicely and see how she reacts, you might be surprised.
2006-09-07 12:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by dodger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is agressive. Explain to her that you do not want to ruin your friendship because you could be great friends. And ask if she would like to be your friend?
2006-09-07 12:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by Jess777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely tell her! In a nice way, don't just blow up at her of course!
2006-09-07 12:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she know you are gay? just let her down easy. by saying sorry i'm not intrested in girls at all. you know? good luck .
2006-09-07 12:51:04 · answer #9 · answered by teddybearleogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and tell her, you don't owe her nothing, but the truth.
2006-09-07 12:52:02 · answer #10 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋