She's my roommate, and I asked her where she and her boyfriend had gotten a TV device (that was obviously mine that I left downstairs). She said they had always had it, however, a month before she had asked me how much they were and I had told her. Mine is gone, and I really doubt they went to the same exact place and got the same one. Considering they did NOT have one when they moved in- which is something we had discussed(see above)- and now she's saying she did.... what do I do? I'm pretty irritated. This isn't the first time she's done something like this, to me or others.
2006-09-07 12:48:08 · 12 answers · asked by Arf 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
She's my roommate, and I asked her where she and her boyfriend had gotten a TV device (that was obviously mine that I left downstairs). She said they had always had it, however, a month before she had asked me how much they were and I had told her. Mine is gone, and I really doubt they went to the same exact place and got the same one. Considering they did NOT have one when they moved in- which is something we had discussed(see above)- and now she's saying she did.... what do I do? I'm pretty irritated. This isn't the first time she's done something like this, to me or others. We've been friends for six years.
2006-09-07 12:56:21 · update #1
I can't lock everything in my room because i have shower stuff in my bathroom, food in the kitchen, she consistently asks to use my stuff, I feel like her mom, I like to share with her and she shares with me too... but i feel like a prisoner in my own home!
2006-09-07 13:09:38 · update #2
I mean, the girl's not totally evil. She's had my back many times. That's why we're still friends (I think). Her boyfriend pretty much pays all the bills, so therefore she doesn't have a job 1/2 of the time, and therefore can't afford things I can, so she requests to use things. But when you flat out take something you didn't ask to use, that is too much.
2006-09-07 13:13:21 · update #3
I say confront her and ask her yourself.or if you cant do that then just start keeping track of your stuff and lock your valuables in your room when you leave the house
2006-09-07 12:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by preggo&luvinit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We had a guy like that in college. We waited till they were gone, took everything that was ours he had claimed, and took everything else and put it in a nearby dumpster. When he returned we claimed no knowledge of where his stuff was, but we had found our stuff and were so sorry we had thought they had it, since it was under our couch. When the police came, because he called them, we told them what he had been doing and let them decide what should be done. The cops offered to help him look for his stuff, which they knew was in the dumpster, but he turned them down, and moved elsewhere shortly. Fighting fire with fire is usually the only way to clear out the problem.
2006-09-07 13:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to say dump her as a friend is ok, but this person is also your roommate, thats not quite as easy. You know the answer; if you want the roommate 'sense of security, with the rent being slpit' more than you want your stuff safe and secure, you wont do anything; if you are bothered more by the stuff missing and the lies and deciet, you will;
it will all grate on you until you blow up and kick her out (for this and many things that will eventuatly add up and make you crazy with anger). no one can sit on this type of stealing. no one. it will hound you. you WILL act on it, if not now, someday, somme how, drunk or sober, which ever is your style, but you WILL say something sooner or later.
2006-09-07 12:58:26 · answer #3 · answered by tally m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to drop that zero and get you a hero. This person obviously can not be trusted. What will it take to convince you? This person taking your life?
2006-09-07 13:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, if you are a christian, show this person your love and forgive them, if you find it hard to do this ask for jesus's help.
by doing this, she will see Jesus's light within you, and notice the true difference between non Christians and Christians.
2006-09-07 12:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by RP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not consider this person/ppeople as friend(s)
And I would suggest getting a new room-mate.
2006-09-07 12:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by justmeinNC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bludgen her over the head with a blunt and pointy object
2006-09-07 12:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by elazrath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Close out the friendship if she is a thief.
2006-09-07 12:49:53 · answer #8 · answered by onelm0 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out. my friend stole a dress of mine. lets say, we are not friends anymore.
2006-09-07 12:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by kimberly k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to her and tell her what you think. Maybe she is not you friend.
2006-09-07 12:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by petelephant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋