smashed up my washing baskets cds and steal and they dont help me clean it up and i ask them
2006-09-07 12:44:58 · 12 answers · asked by naes_17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Take away everything of theirs. For about a week...including xbox, ipods, toys, games, books, radios AND doors off their bedrooms. Let them live like that for a bit. They can earn back their privacy, entertainment and education.
A friend of mine did this to her ROTTEN daughters...they were truly possessed or something. She even took away their dressers and clothes hangers and beds...had to sleep on the floor on their mattresses...I was appalled..but it only took about a day or two before their attitudes changed
2006-09-07 12:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by empress_pam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your question is serious, then you need to do some tough loving of those kids. Why did you ask them to clean up the mess they made? TELL them to do it. Get out a big wooden spoon or a belt and stand there popping it while the little brats clean everything up. It sounds harsh but if they were so bad i can guess they don't see that side of you often and it will make an impact. I promise they will obey.
Then, as punishment take away there TV or video games or whatever is near and dear for at least a week or longer. Don't give in. Remind them every time they whine about the punishment that they did it to themselves.
2006-09-07 19:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by Aubrey C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't take this the wrong way But first of all I would not ask them nothing.I would tell them their going to do it.As for the golf clubs put them in there room give them a book for the next month.If they like books make them wash out trash cans and any other chores you can think of.I wish you the best.My nephews are a big handful,I think I know a little of what your going through.
2006-09-07 19:55:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids now days run the house and not the parents and when i was i kid and i did what you said they did i would need a plastic surgeon to repair the damage my parents would have done to me.
2006-09-07 19:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where were you when all this was going on? Take control and take responsibility...kids behave they way they are "ALLOWED" to behave. Sounds like they are raising you.
2006-09-07 19:51:00 · answer #5 · answered by JULIE R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh, you are hillbilly's
don't worry it'll get worse as they get older
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2006-09-07 19:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by Scooby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ASK them?....you need to gain the upperhand and TELL them!
2006-09-07 19:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
punish them, take away their x-box or other favorite toy for two weeks.
2006-09-07 19:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by Mary S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Glad I don't know you or the kids.
2006-09-07 19:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking thing away from then and see if that works.
2006-09-07 19:57:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋