my sister has been stealing from my mom...she hasnt been making the best choices. shes been hookin up with to many guys. She goes out drinking everynight she probably smokes pott now idk, but im just trying to figure all of this out.. Should i tell my mom?? Should i pray for her? Should i talk to her myself? I mean if i did that iwould feel way to ockward!
2006-09-07 12:29:51 · 8 answers · asked by Lindsey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
do everything that you mentioned! she needs help ASAP!
2006-09-07 12:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I doubt your mom doesn't have atleast a suspicion that your sister is stealing from her. Your mom might not know how to deal with it yet or at all.
Drinking and smoking pot is way to common, be worried if your sister is stupid enough to get into harder stuff.
Hooking up with alot of guys is getting common now too. It could be a phase, a self esteem thing. It could last or she could get passed it but it could be a while (years)
Try talking to her first and letting her know what she is doing is affecting/hurting others, she probably won't take it very well, but the more she reacts, the more she probably cares and realises. Its worse if she just shrugs it off.
Try talking first atleast. No body likes getting ratted on. If they know its coming and they keep doing wrong things than they deserve to get told on.
2006-09-07 19:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your mom and together you can figure out some way to help your sister. By all means pray for her, but don't wait for that to help her. I wouldn't suggest trying talking to her by yourself. She could take it the wrong way.
2006-09-07 19:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever your heart tells you. I think your mother should know. She isnt only stelling from her but from the whole family. I had a brother that was that way for a long time and now he is in prison. Dont let her think it is ok. Tell her how you feel.
2006-09-07 19:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think first u should pray for her, then u should talk to her yourself maybe she'd open up to u more than to your mother and third put yourself in her shoes what would u want to be done, if shes acting like this she probably needs some professional help as well when shes ready..
2006-09-07 19:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok heres what u do ..... join the fun your jelous that your sister has more good looking boyfriends than u, jelous that u cant smoke pot and praying will do nothing nothing you hear dont tell your mom either that would be gay bottem line get laid and smoke
2006-09-07 19:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by =0 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing you could do for your sister is tell your mother! She may be quite angry at you for a while for it, but it will be so much better in the end! Good luck.
2006-09-07 19:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by hopetohelpyou 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF YOU TELL YOUR MOM IT'S NOT LIKE YOUR RATTING HER OUT TO ONE OF HER FRIENDS OR SOMETHING. YOU MOM IS YOUR PARENT AND SHE IS THE ONE YOU HAVE TO TELL SO SHE CAN HELP YOUR SISTER TO MAKE BETTER DECISIONS. TELL YOUR MOM SO SHE CAN OPEN UP A CONVERSATION WITH YOUR SISTER. YOU MIGHT ASK YOUR MOM NOT TO TELL YOUR SISTER WHERE SHE GOT THE INFORMATION SO IT WON'T MAKE IT AWKWARD FOR YOU WITH YOUR SISTER.
2006-09-07 19:37:55 · answer #8 · answered by alotastars2c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋