I do not Know how to flirt with a boy and I would like some answers as soon as possible because I have this boy I like and I need to know how.
2006-09-07 12:19:36 · 18 answers · asked by jhorst1965 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Smile at him
Then lift your blouse
2006-09-07 12:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LoL... liking the opposite sex, flirting, has nothing really to do w/ christianity. as long as you make sure u respect yourself, others, and your family, u will do the right thing. christianity is something that helps u become a better person; it doesn't tell you "Flirting is Evil" etc etc.....!
smile, be friendly, be confident, be able to talk to him, or his friends, or anyone w/o being too scared. take care of ur looks, and how u feel about yourself, and your mind...and u will realize that u are a great person to get to know, and if he doesn't like u, it'll be ok. :) do not confuse Christianity with having to do certain things and voila! u are holy.......that is not what Jesus intended His Word to be used for.
2006-09-07 19:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does a girl have to flirt? Just go up to him and start talking. If he's interested he'll talk to you and if you're getting the obvious brushoff from him then you know! If he's not interested the only thing that may get hurt are your feelings but you move on and it will pass. It'd be more embarrassing flirting with a guy that's totally unaware of you than if you just talk to the guy!
Good luck!
2006-09-07 19:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by tess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Im a Christian too! Just come at him with a friendly attitude. There is nothing wrong with testing the waters as friends first. Personally I think that the best relationships begin as friendships. You get to know one another and then go from there. there is absolutely no rush. If he is for you then it should play out accordingly. God will bing you what you need in his own time. Blessings!! :)
2006-09-07 19:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by Firefly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over this "christian" thing... It'll make your life much easier.
Are you even old enough to flirt with boys?
Mostly, smiling and making eye contact is sufficient, the boys should do the rest.
2006-09-07 19:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should act yourself but be someone else at the same time. I do it all the time and please don't go over board with it because it will and would end up bad.Even though I am a christian to I still flirt with boys but be careful who you flirt with.
2006-09-07 19:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by navydaugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to some of these idiots. Christian or not you are still a girl. Smile at him, give him subtle hints to let him know you like him. If he doesn't pick up on the subtle hints then just come right out and tell him you like him.
2006-09-07 19:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by TJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
K look i am in the same place right now just look pretty and be nice be you not a Popular girl or whatever just be nice to him and he'll be nice too and talk to him not about Sex or anything like that just be kind and mature GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-07 19:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by Krissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your a christian, what does that have to do with it??? Just be yourself, be honest and start a conversation. Focus the conversation on him, men always like to hear themselves talk.
2006-09-07 19:22:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile and be yourself. People like to see a smiling face and someone who is true and honest to themselves. Being sure of yourself and having a positive attitude will draw people to you. If he likes you, then just being yourself should be flirty enough.
2006-09-07 19:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about flirting. Just talk to him.
2006-09-07 19:21:15 · answer #11 · answered by Dave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋