I truly believe i have found the love of my life i know i'm young but this relationship is amazing there is one problem. He left for school and 3 days later he called adn told me he kissed another girl. He called as soon as he did it (1:30 AM) and also called his mom and dad. He said he needed to just know and knows it was horrible. he said "it was like sticking his finger in the electrical socket...you only do it once" he did not beg me to stay with him becuase he understands that we had great trust, and cheating isn't tolerated in our relationship. After several long talks i realized that although very out of character, the kiss was only a kiss and i can't lose almost 2 years of a relationship over it. He DID lose all the trust and is willing to make it up 2me. I love him very much and he (as he always has) still talks about mairrage. I know we're young but we just seem so right. Even both our parents agree that our relationship is surreal.Was it right to stay and will we last?
2006-09-07 12:19:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The truth is that most high school relationships don't last when students are separated, where one or both go to different colleges. Although it isn't impossible, it's very difficult to maintain a romantic relationship over distance, especially given an environment like college. In other words, your story is very common.
You probably aren't going to like my advise. But I suggest that your best chances are to let him go. Both of you should explore other relationships. If the two of you belong together, then this exploration phase will pass, and you'll both want each other back. And if not, then it just wasn't meant to be. I know it's an old saying, but if you love something let it go, if it comes back . . ..
Then again, if it doesn't come back, you can go all stalker and seek him out and destroy his life. ;O (joking)
2006-09-07 12:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by TechnoRat60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each dating is supplied on have confidence. in case you haven't any longer have been given it it won't artwork out. So what i'm questioning is that in case you extremely love him and can have faith it wont ensue returned then perhaps yeah it wasn't incorrect to grant him yet another shot yet how are you gonna make it artwork in case you may't have confidence him in college? thats something you gotta think of roughly.
2017-01-05 03:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most long distance relationship don't last. It's an out of sight out of mind thing. The next girl he kisses will probably be alot better for him ... I bet he doesn't call.
2006-09-07 12:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congratulation.it means u have such a great soul.u can forgive and it is very important for a life.also he has been honest to u that means he accepted that he has done a mistake.man to error...u forgive him and trust him an u will see that u will do the same to u. good luck
2006-09-07 12:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by juoooooon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's great that he called
And when he's banged another girl and ejected a huge load into her mouth, it's good to know he'll call to confess again.
2006-09-07 12:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
outcome not lookin to good
2006-09-07 12:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋