or rather, very early in the mornings? how do you deal with it? or dont you find it disruptive?
2006-09-07 12:12:01 · 17 answers · asked by Wisdom 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
errm fishpaste - you're a bloke...wif a nightie??
2006-09-07 12:18:46 · update #1
i feel so ratty in the morning if he keeps me out of sleep, then i do things to wake him up...its a negative spiral...
2006-09-07 12:20:19 · update #2
chat t - if i get him to come to bed at the same time as me...he wakes up in the middle of the bleeding night and exclaims loudly what he never got to do!
2006-09-07 12:21:53 · update #3
(he's just having his dinner handicapper - yea at 12.30 after midnight). and he responds to your answer by saying (well people like that i.e on this website which he despairs of) they would watch porn, i watch enlightenment programmes".
2006-09-07 12:29:37 · update #4
The other way round in our home I'm afraid. Try to be very, very quite when I do call it a day.
2006-09-07 12:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad was a night owl and my mom an early bird. They were happy. I stay up later than hubby atleast an hour sometimes more. He likes to get up earlier than me. I have always been a night owl, and I don't think you can change that in people. The only time I go to bed with him is when he lets me know that we are going to have some fun....then we fall asleep together after that.
2006-09-07 19:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.....I crept downstairs and found him watching porn with the volume turned down. I thought nothing of it as I knew that if I had made a fuss the situation would have got out of hand. I dont go to bed until around 12 pm myself. Up at 6!
2006-09-07 19:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, yes, It was an issue initially, eg, why cant you adapt to a normal waking hour. It ended in a compromise of me going to bed a bit later, and him waking up earlier. Or him initially coming to bed and then if he felt the need to get up later he could, not that he did - sleep got the better.
2006-09-07 19:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by chat t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is a bad sleeper - very twitchy. I need peace and quiet to get to sleep so my husband's late hours habit suits me.
But I do worry about him - he has in effect replaced the morning with another evening so only really has the afternoon for doing physical or outdoor things. And our meals are odd. My lunch is his breakfast, our supper is in effect his lunch and then he snacks after I have gone to bed. Not good for his health!
Can't get him to change though.
2006-09-08 05:16:50 · answer #5 · answered by granny2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband falls asleep on sofa nearly every night, i used to wake him up to go to bed but now i just leave him that way i get bed all to myself lol. When i wake up in the morning tho he is always there so he must creep in at some point.
2006-09-07 19:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by pollyanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change the pin number on your sky so he can't order porn...lol it worked for my ex.
erm...maybe the fact he's my ex suggests you shouldn't take my advise.
arrange a couple of evenings where you go to bed at the same time, even if yous watch a film in bed or somethinbg...at least yous would get alone time to canoodle. xx
2006-09-11 15:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by Girl From Mars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband goes to bed at about midnight and keeps me up as he is usually on the computer and its in our bedroom...
I think its just a man thing....
2006-09-11 12:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by Julia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people need a lot less sleep than others. It tends to be (but certainly not always) a male thing.
As people age, they need even less sleep. Sorry.
2006-09-07 19:28:08 · answer #9 · answered by Never say Never 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to watch porn.
2006-09-07 19:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by nflhandicapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋