we've ony been going out for 2 weeks.hes head over hills for me and get jelious if i talk to anyone thats not him.we went out once before but i moved he was heartbroken. i just moved back last month and we got back to geather.i woulnt care if we broke up over this i just know that hes ganna be hurt and wont wanna be my friend anymore.
2006-09-07 12:03:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should not cheat on your boyfriend I don't care how long you have been dating! I don't blame him that he does not want to be your friend anymore...You need some moral guide lines in your life!
2006-09-07 12:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The reason why you have cheated is that you really don't have strong of enough feelings for him as the way he has for you. If he is that over bearing with his jealously and he is smothering you, your inner self is telling you something. Listen to your gut instinct and don't let a guilty conscience get the best of you. Maybe if he didn't act so jealous you would not have cheated on him. Be honest with yourself, if you don't have the same feelings for him end it now and tell him that you just want to be friends and that your not ready for a steady relationship. If he can not accept this then he wasn't a true friend to begin with.
Good Luck!
2006-09-07 19:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by asia s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He has a right to know. He'll more than likely be heartbroken, but if you love him and this relationship is important to you he at least deserves the truth you owe him that much. In the end things may work out or not. That's my opinion, do what you feel you must do.
2006-09-07 19:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, what do you expect? I would be mad, too. You are not trustworthy. If you really want to be with him, then you need to tell HIM what you need and want. If he cannot deliver, then you both should move on. This relationship will not last anyway, because he is too needy and possessive, but you are not loyal, and give him reason to be like he is. You are making him in to all these terrible things. If you don't like him this way, then prove you are trustworthy. How can anyone trust someone who is not trustworthy.
2006-09-07 19:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Break it off with him. You don't have to tell him you cheated on him. If you stay together, then you'll both be unhappy. You are obviously not into him, so just let it go. No reason to force a relationship that isn't going to work.
2006-09-07 19:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by Landslide 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you don't care if he will be heart broken then tell him the truth. But make sure he understands you like him, but you don't like him in a way that you want to get married with him and be with just him.
If anything he need to learn somehow, everyone heart gets broken. At least it will be from someone who doesn't want to hurt him intentionally.
2006-09-07 19:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by dyun1dyun1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are not in love if it has only been 2 weeks. And if by cheated you mean that you had sex with someone. I hope that you are using protection. It seems as though you are young and you need to be focusing on education and making something of yourself rather than relationships!
2006-09-07 19:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by cuteGIRL01 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
did u mean to cheat on him? Something similar happened to me...but I didn't intend to cheat on my boyfriend. It's just that my feelings for this other guy took over...when he kissed me. But in my opinion...I think it's better if he tells you. There's a quote that says...it's better to be hated for who you are...than to be loved for who you are not. I told my boyfriend what happened...and whether he chooses to forgive me and be my friend is his choice. I did it...I should have to be able to face the consequences. It might be good...but it might be bad...but at least you know you were honest to him. Also...wouldn't u want him to accept you for who u are..and what u did? If you don't tell him...then it's like he's accepting you...without knowing that this happened...and it doesn't feel right. At least...not in my opinion. But the decision is yours.
2006-09-07 19:11:54 · answer #8 · answered by 2Quinn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats hard, i know in most situations, i tend to respect ones honesty to admiting what they've done. not to say he won't be upset, but in the long run he might appreciate it. If this releationship isn't that important/serious and u don't think it'll b going far, dont' bother, something else will break u up eventually and its not worth his worry and yours.
2006-09-07 19:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you said your self you dont even care if you break up so obvisouly your not htat happy in the realtionship but cheating isnt the answer thats wrong, but hey tell him he deserves to knwo then while your at dump him and stop playin games wit the poor man
2006-09-07 19:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by beautifulmommy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋