yes my real name is barbie and my bf asked me to have sex with him should i give it up?....is sex really that great to lose it?....he sed he didnt want to presure me and he sed he would wait till i was ready. should i ? is sex that great to lose my virginity?
2006-09-07 11:57:51 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my bf asked me if i was ready to have sex with him..i told him i had to think about it ...i really want to but im not sure if thats me or hormones i just turned 16...he sed he didnt want to preasure me...is sex that great? is it worth it?
2006-09-07 12:08:11 · update #1
Honey sex is great but not all the time. I lost mine at a young age and i regret it even tho i did love the guy i should have waited. It's all really based on it you are ready both mentally and physically. It's not something you jump into lightly but if you do then protect yourself and make sure its what you want.
2006-09-07 12:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by K@t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virginity is only part of it. What will happen if you become pregnant? What if contract a sexually transmitted disease? Some can be cured, but many cannot.
Some people put a lot of value in maintaining your virginity until marriage. Is it important to YOU? If so, tell your boyfriend that he'll have to wait. Would it matter to your parents or grandparents if you lost your virginity?
Guys always want to have sex. Having sex can be pleasurable or can make you feel cheap and used. It depends on the situation.
Becoming an adult means making difficult decisions. Whether or not to have sex is an adult decision. Do not rush into these decisions; do not let others force you into doing something you don't want to. Don't ask us to make the decision for you. You may regret it later.
2006-09-07 12:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanted to-and if you were ready-you wouldnt need to ask this question. So the answer is simple-NO. When the time is right there will be no doubt in your mind. Make sure that when you do, that you use protection. Do not listen to any stories that "first time doesnt count" etc. I hope you are over 16 if in the uk. If you are not-tell him that you will not do this until you are 16 at least. Most girls do it under pressure of one sort or another. Only lose it when YOU want to. Dont do it to keep up with your friends either-mates tell lots of fibs!
2006-09-07 12:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by angeldust 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is great, but not if it isn't the right guy. I lost mine to my husband
before we were married 22 years ago, were still married. I am so glad we are married. If I had my choice again I would have made very sure it was the man I was going to marry, did you read man,
we were not engaged just teenagers the 1st time. I am so glad I don't have to know I had sex with other guys other than my husband he did have sex before me. It is special for me. Make sure you are ready and make sure your protected from all diseases and pregnancy, use a condom!! Ypu need to be in love to appreciate sex and enjoy the feeling. Sometimes now I don't think I was ready our 1st time and regret it now. I hold back, emotionally it is hard.
2006-09-07 12:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by mommyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally if you have to ask-you are not ready. You will have no questions whatsoever if he is the right MAN and I say man because a teenage boy is not mature enough to handle the responsibility nor have they had enough play time, but when it is right you will know and not question if it is right or if you are ready. Just remember that once you lose your virginity-you can NEVER get it back! I say wait and save it for that one very special person you want to spend your life with. I lost my husband of 23 yrs suddenly last year and I was faithful our entire marriage and do not regret him being my only one. Good Luck!
2006-09-07 12:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Barbie dear, this is not a question you should ask in a poll. What are your moral and religious values? Let that be your guide. Sex, in a committed relationship like marriage is wonderful because you know the person will be there for you when you stand up again. Otherwise, you just can't be too sure. Consider that.
God bless you.
2006-09-07 12:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOO!!! Don't do it! The greatest sex in the world is when it is saved for one man and one woman. Wait until you are married. There is nothing better you can possibly give your husband for a wedding gift than your virginity. I'm begging you, please don't do it. You wont enjoy it the first time because it will hurt, and though you may feel like you are in love right now, it probably isn't love. Hold off, stay strong, and give your husband the best wedding gift- yourself and only yourself (not the "x" amount of guys that have also had you!)
2006-09-07 12:04:21 · answer #7 · answered by The New Mrs. Nguyen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it if I were you. All boys say that they don't want to pressure us, but they are hoping and praying that it won't be too much longer before we give in. Truthfully, sex isn't all that great. It isn't worth giving up your virginity for right yet. Try to hold out till you get married, if you can. It is a wonderful thing to trust the one that you marry with. No one else is worthy of that gift. But, for just a boyfriend.....NO!
2006-09-07 12:21:42 · answer #8 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, U should wait to have sex with someone who does not pressure you .I regret having sex and losing my virginity. I f u can wait till u are 100% sure that u are ready and make sure u have no doubts.
2006-09-07 12:02:52 · answer #9 · answered by tonyacrazylipstick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about whether you love your boyfriend and whether he loves you. Make sure that you've been with him for a reasonable amount of time, because osme guys just go out with you because you're a virgin, believe me, it happened to me. Don't feel pressured to do it, and you know what, the longer you wait, the more special you are, because that is the most precious thing that you have and you can give it away to anyone, but you get to choose, you choose wisely :)
2006-09-07 12:00:38 · answer #10 · answered by susanradford18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋